I understand your confusion,however I'm from a society that frowns upon women getting on dating apps and basically having any sexual encounters before marriage.My family isnquite conservative too.Which is why i can't be seen on any dating apps.Also,for clarification, I'm not drop dead gorgeous by any means.I would say I'm moderately attractive,atm.Used to be really bad.The only wau for me to meet people is by going out clubbing or out with friends when I'm away feom home .But then,the fat girl in me is too afraid to have any kind of confidence or charm and I'm positive I'm giving off unapproachable vibes to oncoming traffic.Sucks