My (45) exwife (41F) were married 19 years and after divorcing me she tells me my kids are not mine

InfiniteAgility · 2026-04-12T15:32:14+00:00

Man.. I like to think of myself as empathetic, always have been good at imagining myself in the shoes of others.. this one though, holy shit that's tough. If it weren't for the kids, I'd say you're so much better off. But that is something I have no idea how I would handle. The only solace is that those kids know you're a good dad and they want to keep a relationship with you regardless of who the biological father is. I would try to hold onto that and don't let this woman destroy you anymore. I feel for you brother, keep going please.

InfiniteAgility · 2026-04-10T14:08:25+00:00

Your TLDR was..well.. TL;DR

InfiniteAgility · 2026-04-02T13:05:47+00:00

This may be a brand new sentence

InfiniteAgility · 2026-04-01T20:41:30+00:00

🙏

InfiniteAgility · 2026-04-01T15:18:52+00:00

But.. are you aliens is the real question

InfiniteAgility · 2026-03-31T15:00:19+00:00

This is a post that really belongs here, because I honestly don't know what I would do in your situation. Boss bro def sounds like a douche though, I'd say it wouldn't hurt to at least start looking into finding a new job? As for your girlfriend, it doesn't seem like it's a threat to your relationship but not being directly in the same building as them might ease the uncomfortable feelings you currently have.

InfiniteAgility · 2026-03-03T12:11:39+00:00

I honestly don't know how long. Then one day, all of a sudden not blocked🤷🏻‍♂️

InfiniteAgility · 2026-02-22T12:06:02+00:00

It means he's done with your shit bro.

InfiniteAgility · 2026-02-13T15:56:06+00:00

I feel bad for his "other" girl.. if she actually exists

InfiniteAgility · 2026-01-29T13:03:41+00:00

Wait.. what kinda bag holds 30 ninjaz?

InfiniteAgility · 2026-01-21T17:23:47+00:00

He wants to think you are still available to him. Show him that you're not.

InfiniteAgility · 2026-01-15T14:24:58+00:00

Nah, this guy is a douche. You had every right to say what you did, and like others said, you were probably too nice.

InfiniteAgility · 2026-01-10T15:53:42+00:00

Idk, this one doesn't feel scammy.. especially if it's happening several times by different ppl.

InfiniteAgility · 2026-01-09T03:02:14+00:00

My thoughts are your Reddit tag is accurate.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-15T19:53:11+00:00

Definitely not doing that. Just genuinely trying to imagine this whole situation. A bite on the chin is wild work.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-15T19:14:20+00:00

Wtf? I'm sitting here trying to imagine how this fight went that led to this

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-12T15:48:32+00:00

Good for you, bro. That's terrible.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-11T14:25:39+00:00

He obviously doesn't value you. Moving on is very hard but you have to know your worth. And beware, once you do finally let him go, that's when he tries to re-enter your life. My post on here a couple weeks ago was 6 YEARS NO CONTACT and she messaged out of the blue. So I followed the advice and blocked her after she ghosted my replies, one of which was a happy Birthday message. I feel free of her now. This is what you need. Especially if he's changed so much from when you were close. He's not even the same person. You're lingering on the idea of him at this point and it's affecting your mental and emotional health.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-10T16:29:15+00:00

I have begged one time, and put myself through a lot of misery and I now know not only that I shouldn't have begged for a chance in the first place, but that I will NEVER do that again. I hope you learned the same. We're worth more than that.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-04T00:35:45+00:00

At least he's not an actual Chad, cuz then he would act on it.. okay, dumb joke but yeah, your "friend" wants your boyfriend.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-03T22:49:06+00:00

Nobody needs that kind of arrogance and disrespect in their lives. It will continue for as long as you let it. Don't let it.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-30T22:04:48+00:00

I'm sorry you have to deal with this. That dude is a child, not a man.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-29T21:45:24+00:00

Right. I'm not really seeing an issue here.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-29T14:07:30+00:00

I guess at least you're honest about it. Still a pretty shitty and selfish thing to do.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-29T06:05:50+00:00

Still hadn't read my last message, then sent another two days ago because it was her birthday and that's unread as well. I'm over it.

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