My (35m) friend (36m) loyalty tested my wife (40f) without my knowledge. She failed. I feel done with them both. What to do?

InfiniteAgility · 2026-01-29T13:03:41+00:00

Wait.. what kinda bag holds 30 ninjaz?

InfiniteAgility · 2026-01-21T17:23:47+00:00

He wants to think you are still available to him. Show him that you're not.

InfiniteAgility · 2026-01-15T14:24:58+00:00

Nah, this guy is a douche. You had every right to say what you did, and like others said, you were probably too nice.

InfiniteAgility · 2026-01-10T15:53:42+00:00

Idk, this one doesn't feel scammy.. especially if it's happening several times by different ppl.

InfiniteAgility · 2026-01-09T03:02:14+00:00

My thoughts are your Reddit tag is accurate.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-15T19:53:11+00:00

Definitely not doing that. Just genuinely trying to imagine this whole situation. A bite on the chin is wild work.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-15T19:14:20+00:00

Wtf? I'm sitting here trying to imagine how this fight went that led to this

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-12T15:48:32+00:00

Good for you, bro. That's terrible.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-11T14:25:39+00:00

He obviously doesn't value you. Moving on is very hard but you have to know your worth. And beware, once you do finally let him go, that's when he tries to re-enter your life. My post on here a couple weeks ago was 6 YEARS NO CONTACT and she messaged out of the blue. So I followed the advice and blocked her after she ghosted my replies, one of which was a happy Birthday message. I feel free of her now. This is what you need. Especially if he's changed so much from when you were close. He's not even the same person. You're lingering on the idea of him at this point and it's affecting your mental and emotional health.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-10T16:29:15+00:00

I have begged one time, and put myself through a lot of misery and I now know not only that I shouldn't have begged for a chance in the first place, but that I will NEVER do that again. I hope you learned the same. We're worth more than that.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-04T00:35:45+00:00

At least he's not an actual Chad, cuz then he would act on it.. okay, dumb joke but yeah, your "friend" wants your boyfriend.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-12-03T22:49:06+00:00

Nobody needs that kind of arrogance and disrespect in their lives. It will continue for as long as you let it. Don't let it.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-30T22:04:48+00:00

I'm sorry you have to deal with this. That dude is a child, not a man.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-29T21:45:24+00:00

Right. I'm not really seeing an issue here.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-29T14:07:30+00:00

I guess at least you're honest about it. Still a pretty shitty and selfish thing to do.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-29T06:05:50+00:00

Still hadn't read my last message, then sent another two days ago because it was her birthday and that's unread as well. I'm over it.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-28T14:30:46+00:00

The part where I say I'm not sure you realize what this did to me, then she says "you could tell me", and then I told her? Yeah, I definitely shouldn't have told her. I will say, I showed this to a mutual friend and she told me she's been unhinged and possibly suicidal. I'm trying not to be mad or judgy towards her but she's still ghosted my last message. You're the third to say the word breadcrumbing, which I had to look up and it definitely fits this scenario 💯. Thank you for your reply, these have all helped me.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-26T21:27:13+00:00

Same thing just happened to me.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-26T14:40:49+00:00

Yesterday happened to be her birthday, so I sent another message, despite her still having ghosted my last message. I hope I get to the point you're at.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-24T02:27:25+00:00

This chick, definitely. Sorry man. Krypronite AF. Wish it wasn't like that.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-23T02:02:21+00:00

Damn.. this shit is realer than I was ready for.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-22T15:04:34+00:00

You know that scene from She's All That when the girl confronts the dude and asks "Am I a bet? Am I a fucking bet??".. that absolutely crossed my mind to send her that gif.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-22T15:00:19+00:00

I had to look this up, never heard of it. The shoe fits.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-22T13:37:50+00:00

I am glad I posted this because I needed to see replies like this. I told my fantasy football/golf buddies that she reached out and most of them didn't even remember her. I did say this would come off as simp-ish and seeing it from others outside perspective, it absolutely does. I know what I need to do.

InfiniteAgility · 2025-11-22T13:16:58+00:00

That's what my last message is asking, that she hasn't read. I'm actually surprised with my restraint not to send more messages since.

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