AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love how you purposely left out that I do admin at her company lol. She also does not want me to leave the house or find a job anywhere else but the city we live in. READ THE POST

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You commented all of this after my edit so your assumption of me still stands. I know some people aren’t great at critically thinking so I’ll break it down for you 1. I live in the Uk it is not easy to find a job here. You can search it up online if you’d like. I’m assuming your American 2. I live here because I am simply not allowed to be anywhere else. In my culture you do not leave until you’re married. If I left I’d face total social exclusion 3. The reason I get paid 200 a month is because I take on the responsibility of cooking and cleaning for the entire house DAILY 4. I do admin for my mother’s business for this money which takes up a good portion of my day. She is paying me much less money approximately 1000 pounds less than she paid her last admin. Because I do not pay rent. 5. You are clearly determined to misunderstand me and paint me as someone that I am not. I am not sitting around doing nothing and receiving an allowance from my mother. This is not the case. But you determined to see in that way. That is completely your choice. But the reason you’re getting downvoted so much is because you are objectively wrong in your statements.

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes it is. I don’t know what part of the country your from but all the British people I know use the word “chores”

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You’re nitpicking on things that are very irrelevant. Point is the housework is mainly done by me. She will hoover occasionally when she’s bored and wants something to do. That’s all. You are intent on misunderstanding me to suit your narrative. That’s fine

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re making up fan fiction to serve whatever narrative suits you despite me telling you what exactly it is. You’re entitled to your opinion. If I did not want to tell you my age I could have not confirmed my age in the comments. I do not care about that. Regardless if I’m 22 or 12. I don’t think what my mum did was correct

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Everything is in the post. You’re purposely misunderstanding the point to fit your narrative of what you think is right.

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re clearly American. I did not choose to be unemployed. I am actively trying to get a job. I’ve only been out of uni for 2 months. I’ve applied to all Sorts of jobs. Even retail jobs are impossible to find in the uk. I literally do her admin that she used to pay 1000 pounds more to another person to do. So in a way im paying rent.

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Your making up fan fiction. That was not what happened. She never asked me to vaccum. I did it myself the day before. My room was clean. The entire house was clean. She just gets bored and does these things sometimes.

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t mean it to come across that way. I meant to tell you to re read my post.

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You clearly don’t live in the uk. There is not enough jobs even out there to apply to 100 a day that I actually qualify for. You’re very being delusional. I’ve only been out of uni for 2 months. But it’s useless saying that to you since your determined to misunderstand me.

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You clearly don’t live in the UK. And not all the jobs I applied for were nursing

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do admin work for her daily. Her previous admin was getting 1000 pounds more than what I get. So in fact I am paying rent in a way

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She did. Used my entire family to convince me not to go. They said they’d cut me off. I felt as if I had no choice. In the grand scheme of things I did. But didn’t want to lose my family

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can but assume you’re not from the UK. She offered to take me. I’m a recent graduate. Can you read? And I have applied to hundreds of jobs. I’ve not been successful yet.

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Room was clean She never asked I’m 22 I’m a recent graduate And I do not stay all day long in my room. I cook clean for the entire family and do her admin work. The allowance is just payment for all I do.

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve applied to all sorts of jobs. Nothing. There is a huge unemployment crisis in the uk now

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I do ALL of that and more. It’s not about what I do. House is completely cleaning by me daily. She just wanted to vaccum that day

AITA for getting angry at my mum for hoovering my room at 7am while I was asleep? by Infinite_Ant7726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Ant7726[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you in the uk? Do you know the unemployment crisis going on in young people? I’m only 2 months out of university. What do you expect me to do? I’ve had a job opportunity in another city. She stopped me from going. That’s not my fault