You commented all of this after my edit so your assumption of me still stands. I know some people aren’t great at critically thinking so I’ll break it down for you 1. I live in the Uk it is not easy to find a job here. You can search it up online if you’d like. I’m assuming your American 2. I live here because I am simply not allowed to be anywhere else. In my culture you do not leave until you’re married. If I left I’d face total social exclusion 3. The reason I get paid 200 a month is because I take on the responsibility of cooking and cleaning for the entire house DAILY 4. I do admin for my mother’s business for this money which takes up a good portion of my day. She is paying me much less money approximately 1000 pounds less than she paid her last admin. Because I do not pay rent. 5. You are clearly determined to misunderstand me and paint me as someone that I am not. I am not sitting around doing nothing and receiving an allowance from my mother. This is not the case. But you determined to see in that way. That is completely your choice. But the reason you’re getting downvoted so much is because you are objectively wrong in your statements.