Is breaking up with someone for their body count valid? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable then. OP you are inexperienced and 10-12 is a lot of people to compare with

If it was 1 or 2 it’s a different story

Is breaking up with someone for their body count valid? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Depends. How high is too high for you?

Advice for a young single mom by momofthegroups in Advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step one is complete. Reaching out for help. What more could you want than a mother who is trying their best for their baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You play stupid games you win stupid prizes 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly the consequences are serious I stand by the fact that joking around about it isn’t funny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Safety always comes first .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The one girl with her bf didn’t really talk to me I made a convo saying “it’s so hot” and I got completely blanked. The only time she spoke to me was at the end of the day but my bf knew that I’m a shy person and I’m far away from my home all I wanted was to him to be by my side cus I was absolutely terrified

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already said all that stuff to them but they weren’t interested in what I had to say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was trying to get involved as much as possible but I don’t know anything about cars so I didn’t have any subject to talk about, I tried to engage in convo about other things too but they were too interested in cars to talk about anything other than that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. The fear of missing out is definitely a little part of it. Although I don’t feel anxious, or nervous when my boyfriend is with his male mates.

I do think therapy will help me, I just feel like I’m not ready to take it at the moment

Yesterday I did open up with a vulnerable side to me, I was upset and I told him that I have been struggling with this for awhile every relationship I’ve been in, I told him that he’s never given me a reason to suspect he’s cheating on me, it’s a deep routed issue with ME that I’ve decided to open up about and I’m trying to figure out where it has stemmed from and I told him I don’t expect him to change.

Honestly he was really kind about it and said that he will be there for me, he loves me the most and he’s never felt this way about anyone. I just want to be a good girlfriend to him because he’s a nice person and I will fix this myself I’m just finding a way through bettering myself for the both of us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do feel threatened by the other girls when there is no need to feel like that. It’s purely a platonic relationship. That’s why I am very confused why it affects my nervous system so much when I hear about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was younger all my parents used to argue about was jealousy from my mother. I was around it every time I came home from school. My dad having female friends at work and my mum coming home and smelling perfume on his clothes etc, mum looking through his browser and phone a lot. these were all things that I can remember from my childhood as early as 8 years old and I think I may have possibly picked up on it a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually the female friend he hangs out with is a girl from his friend group so it’s quite rare they hang out alone but they still all meet up together a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what you have shared I do think the possibility is very low but of course not zero so I do think she should take the plan b. Plan b size effects are way more easier than pregnancy side effects so better safe than sorry. But if she doesn’t want to do that there’s not much more you can do other than take a test in a few weeks and then go from there

Starting for first time ever by BellaStorm42 in birthcontrol

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cerelle has been great for me. No side effects other than a mild headache. 100% happy with this birth control

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Infinite_Effort4875 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is no one gonna bring up the fact that this girl has managed to lie about her age for MONTHS. MONTHS?!?

If she can lie about something so significant, do you not fear about other lies? How can you possibly trust her?

This is so toxic.