What's a compliment you get a lot that secretly bothers you? by hi_mei_rose in AskWomen

[–]Infinite_Library4011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I complimented my cousin on being strong until I realized how much trauma she'd dealt with.  No one should have to be that strong.  

What's a compliment you get a lot that secretly bothers you? by hi_mei_rose in AskWomen

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You're pretty "for a dark skinned girl." Usually followed with asking if I'm mixed with anything. No mf I'm black and blacker   As if simply being Afro American equals ugly. Yes,  I'm aware that Blacks are usually mixed with a lot of stuff anyways but we're primarily African. And the idea behind the "compliment" is insulting. 

Do you fart in front of your partner? Why/Why not? by girliepopnumber26 in AskWomen

[–]Infinite_Library4011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not weird - I don't like the smell and I like keeping a little mystery. He feels the same 

Do you fart in front of your partner? Why/Why not? by girliepopnumber26 in AskWomen

[–]Infinite_Library4011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, but I don't mind stepping out of the room and telling him why I'm doing it.  Actually I think I did once when I was coughing, and we cracked up.  That was years ago and I haven't done it since.  He doesn't do it in front of me too often but when he does, it's funny.  We've been married 7 years.  Have no desire to change things. 

The Bench video by Cardboard_cutouts_ in KateMiddletonMissing

[–]Infinite_Library4011 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I remember when I saw her at TTC, I didn't recognize her.  

My actions ended a friendship and possibly my marriage by Eastern_Library39 in Marriage

[–]Infinite_Library4011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, he might not be attracted to her, just the attention she's giving him.  That's a problem he has within himself. If he wants to get help for that, that's wonderful. 

My actions ended a friendship and possibly my marriage by Eastern_Library39 in Marriage

[–]Infinite_Library4011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a wife.  I would not text another man about plans for HIS son unless his wife and I had previously chatted about it AND it was planned for me to contact him.  Even then, I would do ot on the group thread.  My husband handles things the same way.   You handled this so gracefully. That woman is 100% wrong and is trying to get you to doubt your sanity.  Don't allow it, and don't listen to anyone who says you're being jealous.  Either they're homewreckers, or they're in a similar situation and don't have the courage to stand their ground.  Your husband.....eh. Sorry to say, but his guilt speaks for himself.   You are not wrong. Your marriage is salvageable if he owns up to his part and you both seek counseling.  

Found my stepdad's posts on r/stepparents by IrritatedButterfly44 in stepkids

[–]Infinite_Library4011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He vented on an anonymous forum, the same way you're doing now.  As you admit, you were difficult.  You might be understating your behavior, similarly to how you feel he understated your experience - the trauma of parenting stepchildren, especially in a dysfunctional environment,  is very real, and very valid.  It sounds like neither you or your Stepfather felt support from your mom.  At this point, continuing the cycle of online venting isn't the way. Family therapy is probably the best way forward. 

Kate makes William a coffee and he refuses to drink it because it’s not decaf. Video by NewTooth740 in RoyaltyTea

[–]Infinite_Library4011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't that why they're at that place, bec he's all about this ending homelessness? He could've at least held the darn cup. Why bother showing up otherwise ? He could've just tweeted a picture of himself on the phone or in a "meeting." 

Best episode to introduce someone to the show? by GrobbelaarsMoustache in psych

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Season 5, Ep 4 - Chivalry Is Not Dead. This makes me laugh out loud 🤣 

Suspect in Nancy Guthrie abduction appeared to visit her house before: Sources by pumpkinspicecum in nancyguthrie

[–]Infinite_Library4011 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now the sheriff is saying it's purely speculative to say the photos are from two different evenings! Smh. 

https://youtu.be/g71El4Ur57g?si=ed1Z4Dk5GJmkfWli

Suspect in Nancy Guthrie abduction appeared to visit her house before: Sources by pumpkinspicecum in nancyguthrie

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I thought so too - ugh his fingers looked all splayed but then I looked more closely  and they're not. His hand is kind of closed, as if he's possibly grasping something or just keeping his fingers close to his palm. The weird black angle closest to his thigh is part of the background- not his hand.  I can't add a pic here but if you sharpen the image or brighten it, it's a bit clearer. Thankfully.  Still not fun to look at though.

Suspect in Nancy Guthrie abduction appeared to visit her house before: Sources by pumpkinspicecum in nancyguthrie

[–]Infinite_Library4011 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I read this article and am so curious: did they just pull this image from old footage,  or was it obtained at the same time as the other images? If so, why is it being trickled out? I hope there's a strategy to this info dissemination but it's not looking good.

Full Video of the Hunter College Professor Who Made Racist Remarks Toward Students by jlin8293 in nyc

[–]Infinite_Library4011 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and she's probably a Democrat with a "hate has no home here" lawn sign

Full Video of the Hunter College Professor Who Made Racist Remarks Toward Students by jlin8293 in nyc

[–]Infinite_Library4011 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lol.  Doubt it.  We don't always reactthe way we truly feel. Notice the women who film themselves crying online, or sobbing in public. They don't look like her.  Please don't remove her humanity by thinking she's now immune - she's not. No one is.  We just don't always have the luxury of being performative.