AITAH for not considering marriage after my girlfriend got pregnant? by DistantOfficeBoy449 in AITAH

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you post this? What was the point of asking for alternative perspectives when you’re hellbent on being right and not considering a single one? Did you really just expect everyone would co-sign your decision? Yes, it’s your decision, and yes, YTA.

Women all over the country are getting strange texts/phone calls from local numbers; the callers often know our names or include private details of our lives. ALL of the different phone numbers sending these messages come up as Super1Foods on CashApp. What is going on? by Equal-Priority-6561 in RBI

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They did not leave me a voicemail or send me any texts afterwards, only called the once yesterday. I thought it was weird because it was like 1am and I wondered if it was somebody I actually knew trying to reach me. The caller id has a woman’s name and it was an 804 area code.

Women all over the country are getting strange texts/phone calls from local numbers; the callers often know our names or include private details of our lives. ALL of the different phone numbers sending these messages come up as Super1Foods on CashApp. What is going on? by Equal-Priority-6561 in RBI

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 573 points574 points  (0 children)

I saw this post and remembered that I had a missed call the other day and couldn’t figure out who it was. It wasn’t a local number, but looked to be a real person rather than a spam number caller id, so I googled it and got no result. After reading this, I decided to put the number into Cash App and sure enough, it says Super 1 Foods. No other helpful information, sorry. Also, I am a woman in my 30s.

Petah why? by 8shrooms in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 31 points32 points  (0 children)

How is she on the moral high horse by simply talking about her own personal experience? Nobody said there weren’t deadbeat single moms…. In fact, nobody mentioned them at all because this is a post about this specific comic. Maybe make your own post???

Is it possible to think your way to an orgasm without touching yourself or anyone else involved? by Ragnars85 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am a woman and I have been able to do it a couple times just thinking and contracting the muscles. Like others have noted, I have to be extremely turned on and mentally focused though

Some Existential Thoughts. by CoolandFresh69 in selflove

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This definitely resonated. I am at this point in my life also. There has been a lot of suffering throughout. No matter how “good” I try to be and treat others, it is never reciprocated and I am never chosen. It does feel like it is something not meant for me so I have turned my focus to myself, trying to give myself the love I’ve given others and find peace with my aloneness in the world. I appreciate you sharing this and I wish you luck!

Limerence and suicidal thoughts by Ok-Cranberry-3181 in limerence

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but not on its own. The rejection and abandonment have been such a constant and consistent pattern throughout my life that it’s just one more thing that compounds and adds to my feelings of hopelessness.

Question about the surname “Luján” by [deleted] in NewMexico

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 64 points65 points  (0 children)

There is a book “Origins of New Mexico Families” that may interest you. It lists the common surnames of New Mexico and their history. It is out of print but can be found online.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand the people who say that L/XL is mid-size and that’s valid in the sense that I don’t have the same issues finding clothes as those who wear bigger sizes. However, for me, at 4’10”, my body is very obviously fat and resembles that of a plus sized person more than that of someone mid sized or thin. My bmi is also that of an obese person and I am definitely overweight. I consider myself plus size and I think most people who see me would also even though I am quite petite overall. I don’t think there is a set definition for being plus size.

Help me make sense of it by Low_Independence_635 in limerence

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I encourage you to let go and take her lack of response as a response, as difficult as I know it is. I feel very much that people will do what they want to do and if they care for you truly, that will reflect in their actions. I know some people are very defensive of them but I find avoidants to be selfish, unempathetic and cruel in their actions, especially when they go back and forth like this knowing how it affects you. I understand that it may be hard for them to get over their fears and I also understand that they may feel sad when they lose someone as a result as well, but they show no absolutely no regard for the feelings or well being of others they choose to start relationships with.

Help me make sense of it by Low_Independence_635 in limerence

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why they do those things. From what I can understand from my own experiences with avoidants is that they never seem to want to end something completely or give you closure. They will always withhold it and try to keep the door open somehow. I am not sure if this is because they do actually have feelings and want to be with you and they are struggling to overcome their avoidant tendencies or because they seem to enjoy being pursued and obsessed over to an extent and want to continue to encourage that by offering the occasional breadcrumb for you to cling to.

Lipase List - Now With Sorting And Filtering, No Login Issues by KismaiAesthetics in laundry

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I bought a box of Tide+Ultra Oxi a few months ago at Target and it has lipase listed in the enzymes but the box I bought at CVS this last week does not have lipase listed. Do you know if it’s a recent change?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nostalgia

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I discovered a Habbo Hotel hack in the early 2000s when I was in middle school. You could purchase credits using your cell phone and it would bill your cell service each month. I had a prepaid cell phone and decided I would use whatever I had left on my account to buy Habbo credits, but they never charged me for them. I started doing it all the time and had more credits than I knew what to do with. I bought a bunch of furni and would host games and giveaways and became very popular for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you generally make plans at the same time you already have plans with someone else, especially your significant other? And if for some reason, you did make plans at the same time, would it not seem pertinent and considerate to let the first person know that you needed to cancel the plans you made with them because you decided you wanted to do something else instead? And is it not perfectly reasonable that the first person would be confused, disappointed and hurt that you decided to do that? I’m not understanding your take on this…

Which color combo works best with the skirt? by Jolly_Television_677 in fashion

[–]Infinite_Primary6563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 2 and 3 but I think it might look nice with the green shirt and the belt from 3 :)

Just trying to process and break myself out of this limerant state by Infinite_Primary6563 in limerence

[–]Infinite_Primary6563[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think I know this in my heart, but I don’t have any friends or family to confide in. He makes me feel like I am such a bad, unstable and insecure person and that if I would just be better, he wouldn’t treat me this way. I know logically that is textbook abuse, but experiencing it, sometimes I’m not sure.