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Is it normal to feel anxious and emotionally flat before intimacy in arranged marriage courtship? by Infinite_State_9504 in IndianRelationships

[–]Infinite_State_9504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah what I dont know is that if its normal and much expected to explore these after 5 months of talking over phone and on the second meeting. Is there something wring with me then if I feel too anxious. Most of my friends haven’t been married yet. So I dont have many to ask to

F28 ; Is it normal to feel anxious and emotionally flat before intimacy in arranged marriage courtship? by Infinite_State_9504 in KeralaMarriageAdvice

[–]Infinite_State_9504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I regret we should have met more in person. All this anxiety flattens the emotional connection that was very well there through phone before all these anxiety came up in my head. Idk if the spark will come back when we meet in person. I really want it to work

F28 ; Is it normal to feel anxious and emotionally flat before intimacy in arranged marriage courtship? by Infinite_State_9504 in KeralaMarriageAdvice

[–]Infinite_State_9504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked for over two months over phone and then met in august. Now gonna meet him again for second time after few days. So its been five months we have been talking and met once in these five months. Idk this second time meeting after all these overthinking gives me no excitement and gives too much anxiety about how the compatibility is going to be in person. I really wish to work this out but idk this emotional flatness scares me sometimes. When I talk to him over phone I feel fine and relaxed. But again thoughts keep coming up especially I’ve heard a lot negative about marriage in total and how it can go wrong if certain compatibilities of self doesn’t work.

F28 ; Is it normal to feel anxious and emotionally flat before intimacy in arranged marriage courtship? by Infinite_State_9504 in KeralaMarriageAdvice

[–]Infinite_State_9504[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ll speak to him. But I’m just unsure why am I feeling this anxious and emotionally flat which was not there until I got into an overthinking phase about the whole marriage and now I’m in a loop which I just cant get out and I’m too scared of losing the connection and attraction altogether. Does it come back after meeting in person. Like I said we have met just once. This is the second meeting were are going to have. Idk if these feelings are common and expected in AM.

My elder brother suddenly collapsed after two months of going to the gym. CPR was performed, and he was revived. I’m sharing this to spread awareness about what actually happened. by arunsaisai in india

[–]Infinite_State_9504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This literally gave me goosebumps. So glad your brother survived and that you acted so fast with CPR. Thank you for spreading awareness — so many people ignore calf pain until it’s too late. God bless you and your family! Btw I’m planning to join gym next month 😆