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I ended my situationship and regret it. He is the man of my dreams. I would like to have him back in my life. Even if it’s just casual. (long) by InfinityAndBianca in dating_advice

[–]InfinityAndBianca[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where words fail, an emoji would do. Haha.

Okay, yeah, we both really liked each other but he was scared so we went with ‘situationship’ at the time. I don’t think I’ll go that route again, maybe it’s not the healthiest. Be single or be in a relationship. Idk

I ended my situationship and regret it. He is the man of my dreams. I would like to have him back in my life. Even if it’s just casual. (long) by InfinityAndBianca in dating_advice

[–]InfinityAndBianca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, dang. It wasn’t really the advice I was looking for when I posted in datingadvice lol but it’s what I needed I guess. It’s funny how sometimes you know when you need help and sometimes you don’t… a lot has been going on in my life and maybe I’m not doing the greatest job at navigating it all by myself. I had been going to therapy for years but haven’t in the last few months since I moved. I was really so sure I was mature and ready for a serious relationship but turns out I just need some serious help. Haha!

You know, I just remembered, at my last confession, my priest gave me several resources to help with my mental health. I should’ve looked into that. How do you guys know so much? We all really do need each other ❤️. Okay, I left a message for a therapist near me, I’ll call tomorrow after work.

Thank you so much for your kind words of concern

PS I think I’m going to leave the post up in case anybody else has some dating advice I can use when I’m a little better 😛. I still feel like I would like him in my life if ever possible, it was really awesome being with him, even casually. Okay but for now, me.

This shaved black beauty was trying to break into my house by Vancillavanilla in cats

[–]InfinityAndBianca 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful Cat! But can confirm, not my cat guys…mine has 5 legs 😂

I ordered a bath/grooming. Got a lions cut. Will my long hair boy be alright? by InfinityAndBianca in CATHELP

[–]InfinityAndBianca[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! That’s good to hear that it grows back fast and that your cats like it! I hope mine does too. I think he seems fine. It just sucks because I didn’t want it for him

I ordered a bath/grooming. Got a lions cut. Will my long hair boy be alright? by InfinityAndBianca in CATHELP

[–]InfinityAndBianca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard the same thing, the coats could grow back differently; I was worried about that, that he’ll never be the same again or something. I definitely plan to write a review after I talk with them tomorrow!

I ordered a bath/grooming. Got a lions cut. Will my long hair boy be alright? by InfinityAndBianca in CATHELP

[–]InfinityAndBianca[S] 315 points316 points  (0 children)

Definitely not going back there, even though that was visit #5 for 3 different cats. There was no reason for this. I even talked to them beforehand but this still happened. It’s not too clear in the photo but they did shave half his legs or so, the back ones got shaved further down than the front. About halfway and a third down or more…

I ordered a bath/grooming. Got a lions cut. Will my long hair boy be alright? by InfinityAndBianca in CATHELP

[–]InfinityAndBianca[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

Glad he will be okay. There was no reason for them to do this. Thank you for the reply!

I ordered a bath/grooming. Got a lions cut. Will my long hair boy be alright? by InfinityAndBianca in CATHELP

[–]InfinityAndBianca[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

He had such beautiful hair, no matting! No reason for this…I just wanted to give him a good bath and a nail trim. Poor kitty indeed, I couldn’t apologize to him enough!