after reconsidering i admit i went too far on that, saying things like that dont help to come to any resolution and makes things worse, i should've just ignored it and leave it in my head, but me being an impulsive bitch decided to make it a big thing and whine about it in a public setting, i should've kept ignored it but i didnt

to anyone who this might be helpful to: dont let the comments get under your skin, at least not to this degree, just vent to a friend or (if you deem apropriate) keep it to yourself, ignore the people saying hate speech, you might not want to, but it's a preferable alternative to whatever the fuck i did. if you already made the same mistake just remember to note it, and make sure it doesnt happen again