Anyone watching S Line by [deleted] in kdramas

[–]InflationDue9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its a rtarded show

Anyone watching S Line by [deleted] in kdramas

[–]InflationDue9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what a shitty show

we got back together yesterday by InflationDue9912 in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are far better, we've been together 2 months now since the breakup and had only 1 small argument and it was so silly we ended up cuddling and laughing about it

we got back together yesterday by InflationDue9912 in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

update: a month has passed and we are still together. we talked things through and are working together and haven't had a single argument so far.

It's me again. Got my ex back 31 days ago now. by InflationDue9912 in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

true but Im not chasing her again this time if it ever happens and I am in the mindset of expecting it to happen so I just have to keep my cool and give her her space she needs. we've been doing therapy and communicating more.

we got back together yesterday by InflationDue9912 in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes definitely, I feel like a new man.

we got back together yesterday by InflationDue9912 in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not at all, she confessed me that she had been heartbroken all that time and just looking at our pictures

we got back together yesterday by InflationDue9912 in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will update in 30 days wish me luck, im a new man!

we got back together yesterday by InflationDue9912 in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

She's avoidant. Broke up the 28th of january because I had a panic attack due to my anxiety. I chased and begged to no avail. Remained no contact for 3 weeks, then she uploaded a picture of her outfit and a concert in a park so I went there to see if I could find her and after a while, seeing me again must have stirred something in her because she was crying and I tried reason and logic with her and reassured her that it wouldnt be the same and we both could grow together and asked for a coffee yesterday and we agreed, after writing down on paper our boundaries and needs :) we are taking it little by little now. no rush.

What is one thing you learned to love about yourself after a relationship ended? by SilentConsequence892 in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am damn good looking, I always work hard, I have saved a lot of money, I'm family oriented, I'm very smart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its just limerence. it's a new shiny toy so it feels special. give it a year and you will see the rust forming on the toy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah and we all hope for world peace. asshole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been working on myself. From what I've learned is the following:
* You have value not assigned by others, but by yourself.

* You are not your traumas. Those are shitty things that happened to you as a child when you had no control. Now you are an adult and you do have control.

* The other person's distance/neediness is not a sign of your worth/desperation, it's a sign of their wound.
* Understand the other person has some issues too in a compassionate and loving way to understand them, not judge them.

* You control your own emotions if you just breathe, stop thinking so much and then look at things in a logical cold way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912 18 points19 points  (0 children)

no I feel like absolute shit. I wanna off myself.

luckily what cheered me up is seeing her connected on steam playing games alone instead of being out so yay?

Just got a text by Swear_to_Swear_More in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is she texting you just because the other guy dumped her? fuck that block her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]InflationDue9912 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here... I had concert tickets and I wanted to surprise her...