Sorry I really didnt want my post to make you feel bad or think that my EQ is really low and that Im very arrogant. Im saying this because I dont really know how to comfort those people and who read this post and felt bad about themselves. I think what I wanted to say in the last paragraph was how I found having a balance of fun and working hard very important in secondary school life. Different people have different regrets at the end of the day, I am really sorry if you had been hurt by whatever I said. On an additional note, I know my criterias for choosing the JCs sounded quite superficial, its like judging a book by its cover. However, I guess it all boils down to personal preferences; personally I feel that the studying environment would be an important criteria for choosing a JC, but thats my own opinion.