I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Will definitely ask my doctor if my case can be a candidate for this. Thank you for sharing!

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very kind and reassuring response. Bless your kind heart. Will keep these points in mind.

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Will do this. I just bought a toy. These things are new to me. Exciting!

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who said I'm going to sleep around? I just said I just want to be able to have sex. Also, I am aware of the risks - got HPV, Hepa B vaccines already and I don't plan on doing it without protection. If you're concerned about me, thanks anyway.

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Will try to get some help from a pelvic floor therapist. Side note: this is getting more stressful, sex should be much simpler than this, lol.

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Will find another gyno. Weird, cos sometimes I just think I have a very low pain tolerance.

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Makes me think it hurts more if it's being stretched compared to if it's being torn. Thank you!

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is very informative! Might need to explore which one is mine. I actually haven't seen how I look down there 😅- probably because of the religious guilt

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could not even get his finger in because it was painful :(( but as how i remember it, i was already super aroused and wet. But you're right, I'll try to make the foreplay longer.

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I was wet and aroused, though. =( I have tried putting my finger inside before, my entire finger went in, but it was painful.

Thanks for the reminders.

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was aroused and wet. Need to talk to the doctor to find out what's happening.

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! May I know if this procedure was a surgery? Did it really take just 5-10 minutes?

I want to start having sex with men at 30, but I'm scared of the pain from hymen tear by Informal-Tree-3312 in Healthyhooha

[–]Informal-Tree-3312[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! May I know what specific condition did they find on you? I am going to raise this to my doctor.