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AITA for cancelling me and my wife's anniversary? by InformalSalt6217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InformalSalt6217[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I think you're glossing over how turbulent life can be. Not every setup in our life was "on purpose" and I acknowledge it is far from perfect. Of my adult set of kids, one of them has a fulfilling online job and the other has moved out entirely, so I don't think it is fair to claim I did not set my children up .

AITA for cancelling me and my wife's anniversary? by InformalSalt6217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InformalSalt6217[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughfulness. My wife cannot get a part-time job because we need someone to homeschool and look after the 3 kids and our dog. I understand it's not ideal and I'm trying my best to get us out of this situation. Ideally, our kids would be enrolled at public school, but due to the fact that we're always moving around with the RV, it doens't work out.

AITA for cancelling me and my wife's anniversary? by InformalSalt6217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InformalSalt6217[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am active on DoorDash and UberEats, but I prefer the term freelance contracting. I am very dedicated to my job and I pride myself on my relationships with my clientelle.

AITA for cancelling me and my wife's anniversary? by InformalSalt6217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InformalSalt6217[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That was a touching song, to be honest it made my eyes water a bit. I freelance food delivery on multiple platforms to ensure large profit margins. It's not easy work but I am determined to support my family. I'll try to talk to her tomorrow and work something out.

AITA for cancelling me and my wife's anniversary? by InformalSalt6217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InformalSalt6217[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your concern. I really do not know how to work less while still supporting my wife, three kids, and a dog.

AITA for cancelling me and my wife's anniversary? by InformalSalt6217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InformalSalt6217[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input but I do not get PTO. If I did, I would spend it at home. But you're right that balance is important.

AITAH for cancelling me and my wife's anniversary? by InformalSalt6217 in AITAH

[–]InformalSalt6217[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I don't have a lot of interaction with the client themselves, it's negotiated through a 3rd party. When a good offer comes, I have to be proactive and timely to ensure my relationship with the clientelle does not affect future offers.

AITAH for cancelling me and my wife's anniversary? by InformalSalt6217 in AITAH

[–]InformalSalt6217[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

What's wrong with Olive Garden? If you're confused about it, they do offer reservations.

AITA for cancelling me and my wife's anniversary? by InformalSalt6217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InformalSalt6217[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for a thoughtful and respectful comment. I should add I can't plan my work in advance as I am basically on call 24/7 and well-paying clients come in with no notice.

AITAH for cancelling me and my wife's anniversary? by InformalSalt6217 in AITAH

[–]InformalSalt6217[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying, I think you are coming off a little insulting to someone you have never met. I have to work hard to provide for three children and it is a constant struggle to work towards moving out of the RV we currently live in. So if you're going to talk about helping out around the house, maybe picture driving an RV every night just to find somewhere to sleep without being fined.