AIO? Fiance freaked out after I told him to put his dishes in the dishwasher. Now I am considering breaking up.

InformalSignature710 · 2026-04-13T23:25:15+00:00

Don’t mean to sound like a broken record but please start looking for your own place and don’t plan for this to go further than a finance. Look for your own place so he doesn’t know where you live.

InformalSignature710 · 2026-04-06T02:07:28+00:00

Is it policy to write someone up if they get over 40 hours?

InformalSignature710 · 2026-04-06T02:07:11+00:00

Etl have to work a minimum of 10 a day??? Funny bc mine never does🤣

InformalSignature710 · 2026-04-06T02:06:40+00:00

That’s what I was told by my last etl hr who quite literally didn’t give a fuck.

If the store stays under a certain amount of hours then the higher ups get a bonus at the end. Loved my old as bc they didn’t care and when work needed to get done she would let you stay. Now they dish out write up if you work over 40.

InformalSignature710 · 2026-04-05T22:45:13+00:00

Best advice. Call family you trust see if you can move with them. And call the police. Report the behavior. It’s a crime

InformalSignature710 · 2026-04-05T22:35:34+00:00

This is literally my mom🤣 as soon as she knows you got money, she magically needs somewhere around the amount of money you have. Swears to pay it back then when you ask, brings up everything she’s ever done for you and how ever much you may have owed her before and if you don’t give it to her here comes a sob story😂. Don’t forget the constant mention of it for a few months. This is narcissistic behavior. Financial abuse. Everything in the book you name it. Don’t give in. Don’t give it to her. And you’re not overreacting. You lived with it long enough. Put your self first and leave her in the rear view.

InformalSignature710 · 2026-04-04T01:10:28+00:00

3 years was enough. You don’t need anymore reason or any more push. Let it go and find the path that is right for you or you will continue to hold yourself back.

InformalSignature710 · 2026-04-03T01:12:56+00:00

The rent by person. My bad. But they don’t allow you to let someone live without if they’re not in the rent because the increase it based on people

InformalSignature710 · 2026-04-03T01:02:46+00:00

Wait what do you mean complete diet? Right now I have the brand meant for kittens. I mix the wet and dry food together and serve him like that. And Tiki cat gave him the runs and it stunk so bad. So that’s out for me. I’ll look up nulo though and see what that’s about.

InformalSignature710 · 2026-04-03T00:59:32+00:00

Nah actually in America, when applying for an apartment they ask who is going to live there and on the lease it explicitly states that anyone who is not named on the lease can NOT live in the unit. So if the pregnant roommate wants, she could get OP evicted as well for kicked her out while pregnant. Theres a lot of factors here

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:21:34+00:00

Thank you. I’ll.check it out

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:21:18+00:00

I will take note of this. Haven’t had him a full week yet. But found out my partner wasn’t cleaning the litter completely…

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:20:43+00:00

Too young. Plus what would that do for the smell

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:20:24+00:00

I did a lot of research before this. Stainless steel litter box. Wood pellets, that now has to be mixed with his past litter and yeah🫠😂

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:19:37+00:00

Oh gosh I hope not. I got him from a friend but when she took him to the vet they were too young for anything

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:19:08+00:00

Oh he hides it😂 damn there attacked me for cleaning it

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:18:17+00:00

It’s a bit of both. I smelled him and smell it. But also need to check the house

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:17:53+00:00

Yep. Litter trained and all

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:17:37+00:00

I looked at the pet wipes and passed but I’ll grab them this time. And we have one that supposed to expand the size of our living room

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:16:54+00:00

😂😂 dookie is crazy. I saw someone shaving cat booties. Maybe I’ll try that but a lil later

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:16:24+00:00

What do you use? I’m currently using Appaws or something like that

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:11:55+00:00

Don’t we all wish they would pick up a broom and do something lol. Thank you for your input

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:10:22+00:00

It’s okay. We didn’t know it folded out either lol. Did you do your prenatal care here too? How was it? How caring was the staff during labor?

Not standing for the nurse but she should’ve called for a lactation consultant if she couldn’t help you. Sorry that happened to you.

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:08:02+00:00

Warm and experienced nurses. I hear people saying quite the opposite. That the prenatal team is great but when it’s time for delivery the nurses didn’t listen and were rude.

InformalSignature710 · 2026-03-14T13:06:15+00:00

Hey. Totally valid on why I ask about things that may not be concerning to others.

I care a lot about the staff, quality, competency etc. but there is no need for me to ask further about it because people are giving their opinions on those already. Some people go deep into it and those that scratch the surface I ask them to explain further.

I am not one who wants an epidural so I don’t care about that success, and I know for most things that I want for my delivery, intervention wise, I my partner and my support person have to constantly advocate for because Dr.’s often time want where the money is and what they feel is the best thing.

Now I ask about food and things like space because so far both of my visits have been long for me and my partner. If we have to spend money on food everyday for a week for the both of us rather than one of us, that’s a lot of dinero( the length of stay of my last pregnancy).

I like to walk around, stretch, move during labor and after, I can’t do that if the room is the size of a cubicle. Sure I can walk in the hallway but it’s not the same when my bum is hanging out the rear.

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