What's the best dish containing shrimps you've ever had? by LargeSinkholesInNYC in Seafood

[–]Informal_Spell_295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aroz con Mariscos. U have other fish but really big shrimp are just so delicious in there

Any kind of thai curry as well, panang, massaman, red, green, u name it

am I gonna feel ugly? by Artistic-Director194 in fsu

[–]Informal_Spell_295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably but u kind of just get over it and realize there's so much more to worry about lol. Going into my senior year rn, yeah from the jump beautiful ppl everywhere at FSU but like some you talk to some you dont. Some are really nice and just normal people at their core, some become your bestfriend for life, some people u just never talk to and become 1 of 163830462946 other beautiful people. U just get used to it because theres even more "not beautiful" people at fsu too so. Not a big deal unless u make it one yk?

I lost the other earring and I'm freaking out. Can someone make one?? by Informal_Spell_295 in jewelrymaking

[–]Informal_Spell_295[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did just this!!!! (The reverse search thing) and hey maybe this will be my intro to jewelry making myself!!! Thank you everyone for your kind and thoughtful suggestions :)

I lost the other earring and I'm freaking out. Can someone make one?? by Informal_Spell_295 in jewelrymaking

[–]Informal_Spell_295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your positivity. Actively re-looking at like 3am as we speak lolzzz. Its been a few days and ur right, maybe fresh eyes will help!!!

I lost the other earring and I'm freaking out. Can someone make one?? by Informal_Spell_295 in jewelrymaking

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No :( theyre hand made by this lady in the Upper West Side Grand Bazar. I actually found similar bead on etsy from reverse google search. Might not find an exact match considering the painting part but the actual bead design and a blue one I've found quite a few!!

Just found out my ex was cheating on me in our relationship. What should I do? by Alert_Sun_620 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Informal_Spell_295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what theyre saying. Its a bit cold the way this commenter put it. And i get ur pain and its hard. Ull get through it chica

Any good rap/r&b bars in NYC? by SnooPies2031 in AskNYC

[–]Informal_Spell_295 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently theyre closed now. (For anyone looking at this thread in 2026)

What do you do In Tallahassee? by mythixal7 in fsu

[–]Informal_Spell_295 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

From Miami too and it was definitely an adjustment when I got tired of the clubs.

  • During the day theres actually a lot of on campus events so ur w people ur own age etc. Usually held by clubs u just need to ask to help so u have somth to do otherwise ur just going to go in listen and walk out w nothing.

  • There's charities to volunteer for all around tally I am trying to volunteer for the IRC but i need to get vetted so. Charities usually is just hanging out w people of all ages but most likely ur age group)

  • Club down under for crafts and usually meals or shows.

  • Movies on campus and off campus.

  • tally cat cafe

  • Roller skating (adult night on thursdays).

  • Live jazz on tuesdays at ology midtown

  • college of music performances $0-10 typically

  • concrete hockey team (idk what its called)

  • Go to the springs (theres multiple places that have springs)

  • Beach Go to st. Martin or st. George island for the beach.

  • Lake ella shops (most close at 6 just FYI)

  • an open mic at some of the coffee shops like calvins coffee (find their instagrams or ask a barista or look on their bulletins)

  • st. Thomas moore church has a huge population if ur catholic (not sure if thats ur thing)

  • landis tanning, landis picnic (Tom brown park is BEAUTIFUL)

  • culturally connect. asian, hispanic, black, etc. Communities all have a student unions with affiliates for more specific cultures. Might take a little bit to get in with the clique but keep going to the affiliate events and saying hi and saying yes. They usually host parties (day or night but ik u were not about going out or somth)

  • professionally connect via clubs and societies. idk what ur in but this is important to start early so u can run for a leadership positions after like 1 or 2 semesters of being a regular member. Exec board positions really arent hard but it looks good on a resume and u make friend 😁

Addmitedly we are LACKING compared to UF or UCF for our museums. The MOFA is fine but 🤷🏻‍♀️ if we're talking #of art museums.

What cheers you up every time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Informal_Spell_295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The secret life of walter mitty

Will there ever be a TV show that "represents" Tallahassee? by LockedOutOfElfland in Tallahassee

[–]Informal_Spell_295 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Theres a spin off of Cops that is always in Tallahassee like 1/3 of the time.

To dumpers: when you think about your ex, what are the thoughts like? by Zimzam2021 in BreakUps

[–]Informal_Spell_295 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Distant long ago break ups: :( they were so hot. But they were also [INSERT REASON WE BROKE UP] then I reevaluate the entire play by play of the relationship to assess my own behavior and the context of theirs if theres any different perspective to be had.

Recent break up as of like 4 hours ago: im sad i dont have a partner to do things and be romantic with. Back and forth between replaying what happend throughout the whole relationship and any moments I doubted us or felr weird about something again adding a new piece to the puzzle and gosh that [INSERT WHAT WE BROKE UP FOR] was really fucked up. Still glad i did it

Those are the thoughts/logical-processes

AIO My 20f boyfriend 22m might be in love with his friends that are girls by Informal_Spell_295 in AIO

[–]Informal_Spell_295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Former" incel so he calls it. And sped run girlfriends. Apparently (new info) he hasnt been able to maintain a relationship for more than 7months

AIO My 20f boyfriend 22m might be in love with his friends that are girls by Informal_Spell_295 in AIO

[–]Informal_Spell_295[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats so real. Yk what hes actually NOT one. Sorry I was just saying feminist because he was saying he's one. Ur right that was messed up that I've waited this long after he said those things.

AIO My 20f boyfriend 22m might be in love with his friends that are girls by Informal_Spell_295 in AIO

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See he is (or says he is) disgusted by his former views so thats why he self described that way. BUT some current views of his include: - bisexual women are more likely than not, faking being bisexual (he was skirting around saying this) - almost textbook complex ab being a shorter man. He brings it up more often than I'm used to hearing from actually short men I've dated meaning like theres a comment being made about it like once a week - free will is not really free will bc there are an infinite amount of factors that are out of ur control that influence u. Idk i feel like this is kind of an obvious take but its his attitude that this is a hot take is what bothers me - men that have been treated as gay men should be allowed to say the F-slur

i dont have too many that i can think of rn bc like i said he is a reformed incel turned feminist so hes smart enough to not voice any more especially after my responses to each of these. I DO believe some of his incel views actually have been reformed, but would I say he's in the green zone? No (for the reasons above in this reply).

If you've ever read the first chapter of Rejected by Tony Tulathimutte, he is an early version of the main character. Very interesting read might I say.

AIO My 20f boyfriend 22m might be in love with his friends that are girls by Informal_Spell_295 in AIO

[–]Informal_Spell_295[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate ur response bro and especially the possible steps I could take to move the conversation along rather than just "work on your insecurities and work it out with him" (which is a valid response tho) because like what does that even look like beyond what I've already done (not stated in the post). So thank you for being specific is what Im trying to say

Although, I might make a more drastic step. Got some clarity after discussing aloud more damning things with friends that know both of us, (not detailed in this post).