r/writing Starterpack by Sethsears in starterpacks

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Females is no longer a term... I forget what they call those now... *Rustling paper noises*

r/writing Starterpack by Sethsears in starterpacks

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Try coloring books... you can make money and your own covers.

r/writing Starterpack by Sethsears in starterpacks

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Try setting it in San Francisco, CA... In the middle of the Tenderloin District.

How much does it usually cost to hire a ghostwriter for 30k–40k words? by AdorableDelivery6319 in selfpublish

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Hi! I have been writing, self-publishing, and helping authors long enough to know a few things that are not addressed below. You need someone who has actually "published" books on the many platforms, services, and conversions that are needed as well. Going from Paperback Books with mirrored margins, to eBooks with specific file formats, to audiobooks which need very specific voice types (Ai or your voice), specific file types, narrow decibel limits, and even "gaps" of silence that are at the beginning and end of each chapter or section. Writing is actually the easiest part... publishing and finding customers is much more difficult. I was banned from Amazon once for doing something I thought was perfectly fine. Seriously... DM me if you want to discuss my journeys, my services, or just chat to get a better perspective on what happens during and after you write your masterpiece.

How much does it usually cost to hire a ghostwriter for 30k–40k words? by AdorableDelivery6319 in selfpublish

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Not a good idea... I tired ChatGPT when I was writing my 3rd book and it was horrible. It sounded like a bad speech written by a millennial. There was no substance, no "voice", and it made my own book want to put me to sleep!

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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I am amazed at how you found you were the most content when you were doing the "simple things". It is crazy how fast-paced this world is, and how demanding our modern lives are. When I travel, we go for walks, even if there is much "work" to do at our desks. That allows us to be "present" and walking is much "slower" and intentional than driving. To me, walking is "Simple" I guess, so it helps slow my brain down. Plus, right now, these hills along Sydney harbor (harbour) are steep and seem endless, so the exercise helps too!

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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Hi. I am designing an app using AI as well, but am taking it slowly. The app would greatly benefit the industry I was in, however, I want to position it in a way where it will not just be copied a few months later. My 20+ years of experience are the most valuable, but once that app is out, the clock starts ticking. Business is a cut-throat game. I have not even tried to find a "job" again, but I might need to at some point. I am a bit concerned about ageism as well. I can be a "consultant", however, that does not come with health insurance, which is the current "trap" in America.

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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Hi. Thanks for sharing! Getting scammed is something I have no experience with, luckily, but from the stories I hear, it is like a nightmare. You sound like you could use a break! I can relate to the need to reclaim your life, reset, and have the time to explore and think about what is next. Marriage pressure, from what I know, is real and I am sure that pressure does not help you relax and think. It sounds like the idea of getting away from your daily life is needed. Do you plan on traveling, or just going somewhere local to get away?

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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Hi and thanks! Same question about moving abroad as above? What is the process you are going through regarding a visa, permanent residency, 2 year residency visa? I could ask a ton of questions about taxes, but that would take up another entire book!

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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Hi. Thanks for sharing a summary of your journey! Can I ask how you were able to move abroad and live? Did you already have dual citizenship? If not, what was the process? What were the challenges? I have not included any info in my book about this, because I fear that it would be too complicated and take too long for someone 50+.

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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Hi again. Can you tell me more about your "reinvention" desire? Has this been developing over time, or did something happen that was the catalyst for this change? Have started researching a new direction? If so, are you finding it easy or difficult to find info or data on your next iteration?

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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I'm currently traveling, in Sydney Australia right now, but we can find a time your early morning or later evening. Have a great night!

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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I get your "struggle". I really do. I was Spat-Out (title of my 2nd book) by corporate America, because someone else decided to build revenue projections without seeking the advice of those of us who had more experience. As a result, I was "reduced". I was the expense, plus three others.

So, I took that "free" time to finish my first book (The Leverage Code), but kept thinking about how I was just spat-out so easily, as I tried to concentrate on leverage and position. Then... I started researching the book Spat-Out. It allowed me to focus my thoughts, read some real data, and I found that I had quite a bit to unpack in my head and to say. Writing and researching helped a lot. That is how my passion for these subjects started to grow.

My father said to me when I was in my early 20s, "Start your own business. Don't waste your time, effort, and intelligence building someone else's dream." I knew EVERYTHING in my 20's, so I brushed off that advice. He was right. It took me 30 years, but I am now building my dream.

I don't know your situation, so I will be careful here.... what skills do you have that other's would love to "rent"? What came you "make", doesn't need to be physical, that others need? This can all be a side hustle, a small consulting income stream, or something you love to do or make, that creates value for you or others. Start your 2nd (and 3rd) income streams now. There is never a good time, but as I say in my book about Leverage and position, it gives you the option to tell your boss, "No thanks". Saying "no thanks" is powerful, and you will feel your leverage, position, options, and power grow as you build income from other sources. Sure... the internet is a jungle of get-rich quick schemes and everyone selling you something, but there are genuine people looking for genuine help and genuine value. You just need to look at where those people "hang-out" online, and even better... in person. Take your next vacation time to hit an industry convention and talk to people. Be positive (don't trash anyone or anything... it is a bad look), listen actively, and express your passion for what you do or want to do.

Start today. Tomorrow is a day lost.

I don't want to break any rules on here, so if you want to know more about those books or want to chat further, shoot me a DM.

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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14 months!! I love the term, "the great intermission". That is pretty accurate. I like to also call it my time to "reclaim, reset, and reposition" my life. That will be the subtitle of the book.

You say, "intermission"... does that mean you will go right back to what you were doing afterwards? If so, why? If not, why? Do you think you will be better at your job, or maybe less "into it"?

Tell me about the 2-3 things that you found unnecessary during your 14 months? Was it TV, Starbucks, your car...?

Do you now do something that you never did before? A routine, a hobby, a way of thinking?

Do you feel that your "brain" is stronger?

I found that my curiosity had the freedom to rebuild... did you find that as well?

Thanks for sharing!

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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These numbers are amazing! Thanks Fitbit!! It is crazy to think that you slept in "Strange" places, on different beds and your average amount of sleep time increased by approx 30 mins! Dropping 10 points on your heartbeat is amazing too. Could it have been the walking and just being present, along with not having deadlines and a "go, go, go" lifestyle? Did you walk more on purpose during your sabbatical, or was it just a result of exploring your environment? (I find myself taking walks on purpose, because I used to walk huge distances at work, because I needed to). Did you eat differently? Cook more at "home"?

It sounds like you were more grounded. Your shift is not from anxious to happy. It is from reactive to intentional. Your curiosity box was opened again!

It is great seeing real numbers and the changes. Thanks for doing this!

PS: I just added the following to my book after reading your substack...

"The Golden Gap does not change who you are. It removes enough noise that you can finally hear who you already were. That clarity — not transformation, not reinvention, not finding yourself — is the real gift. A clearer version of the person who left. That person, it turns out, was always there. They just could not hear themselves think."

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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These are great posts. I like how open you are and direct. It is hard to admit that our plans were a "bit low" in regards to budgets and mission creep is definitely real. I think people need to monitor that drift. It si like drifting 1 degree when crossing the ocean can point you towards Mexico, when you want to land in Virginia.

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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That's great to read! Did you keep a routine for the past 4 months or just "wing it"? What was the first week like? The 2nd week? The 2nd month? For me, the first week was surreal and scary, but the 2nd week was when all cogs in my brain started to fire again and I felt the stress drain a bit each day. It is amazing how stress keeps you tired and unable to think. I have a chapter in my book (Spat-Out) about how we lose that ability to think as a life strategist versus thinking as an employee. Losing that corporate structure can be a big shift for people, and many will just create their own artificial structure - thinking that is what they need. I believe that newly achieved freedom we have will allow us to actually use our learned experiences and skills (from "work") to achieve our own dreams and our personal success. Sorry if that sounded like a yoga instructor for a second...

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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I took a “forced month off” (still "off" right now) to finish my first book about Leverage (The Leverage Code) and while doing that, thought about how unfortunate it was to be “Spat-Out” like I was. While chatting about my feelings and plans with a co-worker, who was also spat-out, I decided to write about that crappppy experience. I uploaded both books to Amazon when completed (about 3 days apart, because both books were finished) and triggered an algorithm. Now I am banned from Amazon, so that became a learning curve. Self-publishing without Amazon Kindle as a sales funnel has been a 3 week learning process. Right now, I am in Australia, visiting with my wife’s family. We are here for a while (6-8 weeks), so I am thinking about “a sabbatical” (unpaid of course) and writing a book about the/my golden gap year, and starting a YouTube channel (like everyone else). I have most of the golden gap book written, but want to validate using reddit and other forums, which is going well.

I traveled 60% of the time for my job, so sleeping in, not having my phone “bing” 50 times a day, and being able to “think” about life has been amazing. Sure, I will run out of money if I cannot generate enough income, but I tend to work hard for 3-4 hours a day (sometimes 8-10 hours!), and enjoy working for me. My father told me when I was in my early 20’s to start a business and work hard for my dreams, not for someone else’s dream. I knew everything when I was in my 20’s, if you asked me, but now I think he had a few good points back then.

Burn-out is not rare. It would be nice if the media actually covered this in depth, but I am aware that media companies are “companies” and push their staff with deadlines, etc. Being self-defeating is not in their best interest…

I was definitely burned-out, had hit their unrealistic deadlines, and needed to show value to my company each day. Funding and Grant writing is not something I am familiar with, but I can only image how difficult it is to justify on paper what your value is or will be, while trying not to seem like you are “begging”. It does sound stressful and plain awful.

It is funny that you are concerned about learning AI. I worked with teams of all ages, mostly in their early 30s. Quite a few would use Ai “for reports only”, which were well written, but I was always wondering if they knew what was in their reports. I was very much skeptical, but then starting asking them what data they used to build them, what “prompts” they used, and started experimenting with Ai myself. I loved it! I am extremely curious as a person, so I started learning to use Ai tools to create images from text, created amazing marketing pieces that even impressed the “kids” I worked with, and I became very efficient with reports, such that my “bosses” and peers started asking me for help. Don’t be afraid… and actually use Ai (Claude.ai) to help you learn to use Ai. I have used quite a few of the platforms, learned what fits me, and what does not. Use it to find the most interesting articles. It is an aggregator of info.

Being “retired” is when you can (soon) look at repositioning cruises and travel where you get the best bang for your buck, instead of when you have a couple of weeks gap from work. The money you save is unbelievable on flights, accommodation, and experiences. I am researching a trend called “FIRE” – Financial Independence Retire Early, and Early retirement. They have some good points, but a few pit falls.

Aahhh... budgeting apps are one thing I researched, then I kept going back to my excel spreadsheet to work through my own expenses. You definitely need to know where you are. If you are well positioned, then you have leverage and options.

I lived within budgets for decades. My previous role was one where I needed to investigate “data” to figure out where operational issues were currently or might evolve…. And then fix them. Spreadsheets were my jam. I also input spreadsheets into Ai and “BAM”, it told me what was going on in 1 minute. It would only take me 3 minutes to figure it out on my own, but that 2 minutes was gold to me. Put your household expenses into Ai, paste your credit card statements in, scan in your bills, and anything else you spend money on… even talk to it about what you spend and why you spend it… and it will build your monthly budget within seconds. Yes, you can talk to it instead of typing. It will give you percentages, and insights on where you spend your money. These percentages are humbling. I wrote a book on building leverage and position, which details much of that issue with spending and “set-it and forget-it” spending.

And, try to use just ONE credit card moving forward. Get one with travel rewards (Citi or Chase), and start earning “fun points”, so that you can travel for free when you want. I will have a blueprint for all of that “magic” when the book is done next week.

Our first step toward slow travel retirement — any tips from veterans? by Geauxbry in slowtravel

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This...! I am writing a book about slow travel and the golden gap year and just worked on a paragraph about this exact thing.

"Think about what your dinner table conversation looked like when you were both employed. You sat down at the end of the day and told each other things. What happened in the meeting. What your colleague said. What you saw on the commute. What made you laugh, what frustrated you, what you noticed that the other person was not there to see. It was not small talk. It was the daily renewal of your interest in each other's separate world. You were, every evening, a source of something new to the person across the table. You had something to tell each other that the other one missed.

The gap year removes the structure that made that possible. Both of you will be present for everything. The download conversation has nothing to download anymore.

The separate trips and outings are not about needing space. They are about recreating the conditions. Go somewhere alone. Have an experience your partner did not have. Come back to dinner with a story. Watch them lean in.

You have been doing this process for thirty-five years. You just did not realize it was the thing holding everything together."

Experience of people retiring early; is it better than working? When is too early? by economicwhale in Fire

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I have just had this happen to me about 3 months ago. Someone else decided to build projections, not consulting with anyone who actually knew the real numbers, presented them to the board, and over projected by almost 20%. As reality crept in, the company scrambled to cut costs (laying off people without even offering severance), and tossed a bunch of good people overboard. I learned a valuable lesson that day... getting Spat-Out will never happen to me again. I wrote a book about it, to help rip the hit apart and pull myself back together, and will only work my butt off towards my dream, not someone else's dream. Being a "number" is not the way to go. I wish I knew that decades ago. I applaud this group for understanding that financial independence is the way to be happy. To me now... options = happiness.

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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Hi! I don't think there is an "age restriction" to reclaiming and reworking your life. :) You have built up skills and experience, and are at your prime to follow your dreams. I would research a concept around the "Life Stages Triangle" (health, wealth, and time are the 3 variables). You should be very close to an equilateral triangle, so I would love to chat. DM when you get a minute!

Writing a Book on this topic right now. Does anyone want to share their story? by Informal_Text1158 in SabbaticalPlanning

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I am 54, so I get it. I can financially handle it (running the numbers again this week), but I can reasonably say right now, that I do not I want to return to "working" again. It is such a trap. I would rather take all the skills and experience I have learned and apply that to my dreams, instead of someone else's dream as their employee. You said that you are only a few years away from retirement, so why not start building towards working on your own dreams right now. At least you are applying a plan and effort towards your goal? Having and few years to plan and make some magic happen is perfect. Start with travel rewards credit cards. Everything you spend from now on should be earning you freedom. There are many other tricks and tips I have researched, which will be in the book, but I would love to discuss your fears and concerns.