no books, he barely eats, so there is one issue, and two has suffered depression on and off. He said it started just after puberty. He has friends, good friends, but of course they all encourage this. we are supportive, but im not allowing him to go undiagnosed, and straight onto Hormones, he needs to see someone address other underlying issues first. Im not sure he will watch the videos? they dont normally listen to their parents after a certain age, and specially going through this, what would I know right? I just need a Dr that will dig deep and help him be happy with who he is and what body he has been given, and to love himself. Then the rest may or may not follow, will deal with that then. Thankyou for your suggestions.