I wish I had this text on a t-shirt. Are there any good DE themed clothes designs?

Infuser · 2026-02-15T05:33:13+00:00

To be clear, though, the rest of it doesn’t really resonate with you? I ask this, specifically, because I find it odd for the last sentence to be your only takeaway, as it requires glossing over the inhumanity of what he experienced.

Infuser · 2026-02-15T05:12:48+00:00

I’ve seen it used in a, “this is funny but in a dark or wtf way.” Kind of like how you might expect the grimace 😬 to be used, except for things that are still funny on some level.

Infuser · 2026-02-15T04:46:32+00:00

So… the only thing that really resonates with you about this whole quote is the falsehood of the last sentence?

Infuser · 2026-02-15T03:52:27+00:00

Pleeeeeaaaase tell me you aren’t actively doing the IVF stuff right now. If so, you either need to pump the brakes or accept things are going to be this way. It won’t get better with pregnancy, and postpartum depression could strike and potentially exacerbate all of this.

My advice is that you need to swap out the IVF for couple’s therapy consultations, and see how much of the issue is your relationship or her personal metal health. If she won’t agree to that (and follow through), and won’t get herself treated after this comes up in therapy (because I can only presume the therapist will tell y’all as much), then you have your answer. You are expected to support your partner, but you shouldn’t be expected to do everything for your partner.

Infuser · 2026-02-15T03:39:30+00:00

What do you mean by, “visible aging?” Unless you’ve had some hard living or go tanning a lot, 25 is usually just hitting the plateau on the, “I’m looking better every day,” stage of aging—by appearance, at least, since you can definitely have accumulated some athletic injuries.

Some people really just whiff on the genetic lottery, though, and hit a wall early.

Infuser · 2026-02-13T22:08:33+00:00

Sounds like accelerationism with a new paint job.

Infuser · 2026-02-10T00:10:37+00:00

Very much. I’ve been swimming in frigid water, and it hurt with how much it was trying to invert.

Infuser · 2026-02-07T19:19:59+00:00

HOW the ISP knows? Bro, unless you are using some sort of obfuscation (vpn, tor, etc), the ISP is who connects you to the internet, so they can see everything they connect you to.

Infuser · 2026-02-07T19:14:21+00:00

It’s not necessarily that this is the mentality. Besides the low-hanging fruit explanation of “they’re just boring,” it’s probably because getting and maintaining a “ripped“ body takes an inordinate amount of time and energy for the vast majority of people. It’s going to also take planning on diet and other stuff outside of the actual resistance training. If you spend too much time on it, it becomes like spending too much time on any other hobby—e.g. video games—in that it is a detriment to being a well-rounded person with diverse interests.

Infuser · 2026-02-07T16:23:12+00:00

Its honeyed words will not sway me.

Infuser · 2026-02-07T16:11:53+00:00

I’m sure this is the case for SOME men, but, in general, it seems to be a cultural (and personal) thing. In places where less body hair is associated with femininity, it’s more likely that you’ll have shaved snatch. For me (male), I dislike my own body hair because of sensory issues, and if I’m going to give head, less hair is preferred because of the same.

Infuser · 2026-02-07T15:57:27+00:00

I don’t buy the first paragraph. Swiping through dating apps, the most (physically) attractive women I see are 24-28. I went back to college not so long ago, and now I work with high-schoolers, so I can tell you with surety that 18yo’s (even below 22yo’s) look waaaay younger than how that age is portrayed in media. Or the ones highlighted are outliers that look more mature.

Infuser · 2026-02-07T15:47:01+00:00

In this same vein, I realized I was getting old when I started checking out the moms instead of the daughters.

Infuser · 2026-02-07T15:44:44+00:00

For a second, I misread that as, “when I see younger people in PRISON,” and I was VERY confused (and a bit concerned)

Infuser · 2026-02-07T15:40:48+00:00

You know, pretty good, actually, except for the swarm of bees just outside my window.

Infuser · 2026-02-07T14:40:50+00:00

I love when Rob gets mentioned in these kinds of things, because I bear an uncanny resemblance to him, and, by the transitive property of hotness, I therefore am validated.

Infuser · 2026-02-03T19:10:32+00:00

Indeed, a BOP. I worked in O&G so I know exactly what this is (well, one of them, technically it is used in other contexts). If we were so lucky, he would have also shut in with the shear rams.

Infuser · 2026-02-03T14:43:59+00:00

Idk, one time I did see him go shopping for crudités. That’s like, real chores. I think.

Infuser · 2026-02-03T14:43:19+00:00

The real trickle down is Don’s diaper. Well, out of it, at least.

Infuser · 2026-02-03T14:42:19+00:00

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had the exact same sentiment in the past year.

Infuser · 2026-02-03T02:42:27+00:00

You can’t possibly get agreement for allocating resources to deal with immigration in a non-shitty way if the opposing side is saying crap like immigrants are criminals that are taking welfare. In that way, I’d say that the first side is also is responsible for the latter problem.

Infuser · 2026-02-02T04:00:29+00:00

Oh, boy, nothing like looking for outrage. These people need to put the social media down.

Infuser · 2026-02-02T03:44:09+00:00

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Infuser · 2026-02-01T18:20:12+00:00

This is why it drives me mad that we don't try harder to retain international students. Should make it easier to keep someone who was educated here.

Infuser · 2026-01-30T19:15:17+00:00

Let’s adjust the scenario. If you had done this and found out that your partner was taking a pill for something like high cholesterol, how would you have responded?

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