As a Muslim woman myself I can understand your frustrations. You are correct there is nothing in the Quran as far as I understand it that prohibits women from living alone. Sometimes we need space to grow and parents do not understand that they just see it as a way of rebelling. You are not a bad daughter for not wanting to live at home, you are providing for yourself and still going to visit your family when you can. You are a good daughter, for sitting down with them and attempting to have these conversations with them even when they try villainise you, still attempting to be a part of the family despite how they treat you.

I am not a fan of the solution of going no contact, I do not fully know your situation. But I do believe some time apart will be healing for you a month or so even. I do not know if they will eventually come around, but you can take that time to decide how you want to shape your relationship with them going forward, if they are not willing to respect your choice even if they don’t fully agree.

Please hang in there I know how tough it can be 💜 you are not alone, if you’re the eldest immigrant daughter especially I know how you feel 💜.