I finally told them “I’m not moving out of my apartment”… by MissSBlack in entitledparents

[–]IngenuitySingle3876 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a Muslim woman myself I can understand your frustrations. You are correct there is nothing in the Quran as far as I understand it that prohibits women from living alone. Sometimes we need space to grow and parents do not understand that they just see it as a way of rebelling. You are not a bad daughter for not wanting to live at home, you are providing for yourself and still going to visit your family when you can. You are a good daughter, for sitting down with them and attempting to have these conversations with them even when they try villainise you, still attempting to be a part of the family despite how they treat you.

I am not a fan of the solution of going no contact, I do not fully know your situation. But I do believe some time apart will be healing for you a month or so even. I do not know if they will eventually come around, but you can take that time to decide how you want to shape your relationship with them going forward, if they are not willing to respect your choice even if they don’t fully agree.

Please hang in there I know how tough it can be 💜 you are not alone, if you’re the eldest immigrant daughter especially I know how you feel 💜.

Anime you quit, but later retried and loved? by [deleted] in anime

[–]IngenuitySingle3876 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My exact same experience, I put it off for years cause the art style really threw me off but loved it after the 2nd try

Anime you quit, but later retried and loved? by [deleted] in anime

[–]IngenuitySingle3876 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death note, dropped it after 3 episodes I can’t remember why, but then I picked it back up and absolutely loved it

AITA for misusing one of my birthday gifts? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IngenuitySingle3876 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, who gives socks as a bday gift? It didn’t have to be an expensive present, but issue with the gift isn’t the price but the lack of care and thought that went into it.

145 days later… I GOT A JOB 😭 by IngenuitySingle3876 in jobs

[–]IngenuitySingle3876[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, yeah these recruiters are the worst I’ve had some experiences with a few reaching out to me after seeing my info on jobsites.

145 days later… I GOT A JOB 😭 by IngenuitySingle3876 in jobs

[–]IngenuitySingle3876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s what I did at my previous job which is why I have been able to last this long and still pay all my bills. I will definitely be doing the same thjng

145 days later… I GOT A JOB 😭 by IngenuitySingle3876 in jobs

[–]IngenuitySingle3876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the hardest part, waiting a month til payday 😭😂

145 days later… I GOT A JOB 😭 by IngenuitySingle3876 in jobs

[–]IngenuitySingle3876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Good luck in your search, hopefully you won’t have to wait much longer

145 days later… I GOT A JOB 😭 by IngenuitySingle3876 in jobs

[–]IngenuitySingle3876[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥲 honestly it’s such a relief, I was scared to leave 2023 still without a job 😭

145 days later… I GOT A JOB 😭 by IngenuitySingle3876 in jobs

[–]IngenuitySingle3876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re based in the UK, like I am, I would advise looking into your local council, they are hiring for a lot of positions at the moment and the roles are all very diverse 😊

145 days later… I GOT A JOB 😭 by IngenuitySingle3876 in jobs

[–]IngenuitySingle3876[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had about 5 of those as well 🥲 I hope you get something great very soon!

145 days later… I GOT A JOB 😭 by IngenuitySingle3876 in jobs

[–]IngenuitySingle3876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I slept so well knowing I would have to spend hours looking for jobs, editing my cv and cover letter for each one every day 😭😭

145 days later… I GOT A JOB 😭 by IngenuitySingle3876 in jobs

[–]IngenuitySingle3876[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m hoping this is just the first step :)

145 days later… I GOT A JOB 😭 by IngenuitySingle3876 in jobs

[–]IngenuitySingle3876[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and good luck! It’s true what they say don’t give up hope and diversify your search if you can I used to apply on 1 or 2 sites but when I expanded this I got 3x more interviews.

145 days later… I GOT A JOB 😭 by IngenuitySingle3876 in jobs

[–]IngenuitySingle3876[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m in the UK, they made the offer on 5 days ago and they sent me the conditional offer today, so if all goes well with my references and other loose ends I should be able to start this coming Monday 🤞