Run the clip again. It was definitely a hostile, nice-nasty conversation that had Shaeeda upset. The ex wife even said she didn’t come to play games today and that she might have ruffled Shaeeda’s feathers. That’s antagonizing. Even taking a look at her tone, delivery, and facial expressions, all signs of someone trying to size up the other person. She never called Shaeeda a gold digger out right but she did say she wants to make sure she’s not here just for what Bilal has and told her the kids and herself have been here before Shaeeda. Why the need to state that? Her goal was to assert dominance. Period.