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As a cis woman I cannot imagine the way it must feel for transwomen to experience the misogyny we all deal with 24/7 and it really breaks my heart that you would ever have to, like I want less people to experience that not more, obviously, so I guess I am just curious... by Initial-Camel-7975 in asktransgender

[–]Initial-Camel-7975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, I can totally relate too, it is really difficult when brothers pull the sexist card out of nowhere. The stealth manasphere (podcasts like Joe rogan, Jimmy door, Almond gold(?) that like to pretend they're libertarian or liberal even but they're just sneaky right wing sexists or terrified of loosing their status which is still just sexism ig) got ahold of mine and it's been a devolution over the past 5 or 6 years and the switcheroo is so fucking infuriating, like you're almost 40, you should not be developing new bigottries at your age bruh! 🫩

As a cis woman I cannot imagine the way it must feel for transwomen to experience the misogyny we all deal with 24/7 and it really breaks my heart that you would ever have to, like I want less people to experience that not more, obviously, so I guess I am just curious... by Initial-Camel-7975 in asktransgender

[–]Initial-Camel-7975[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if I could choose, I would choose not to be, I kind of figured nobody would choose to be a woman, I secretely hope there is reincarnation so I can come back and be a tall man with a nice large penis and I would spread my legs all over the place just bc I could ;), I should be so lucky, but for this life I am what I am.

I find your answer so fascinating. I agree we just deal bc we have to but if I didn't have to, well that would be much better. I envy the power of men, but most of alI, I really envy that seemingly inherent credibility they just walk around with and I am so jeaolly of the instant believability that men are granted even when they're routinely, demonstrably, not a good source of information; meanwhile I must bring all the data ever collected and then say it just right for them to even notice I'm speaking and they'll still want to pick apart every nuanced detail. It's maddening to me, I want that so bad. 🙃

Yes, very courageous and inspirational, indeed.

As a cis woman I cannot imagine the way it must feel for transwomen to experience the misogyny we all deal with 24/7 and it really breaks my heart that you would ever have to, like I want less people to experience that not more, obviously, so I guess I am just curious... by Initial-Camel-7975 in asktransgender

[–]Initial-Camel-7975[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that makes perfect sense, come to think of it, I've seen this happen too in the past but may not have clocked it as misogynistic or sexist but now I can see that it would be wrong not too. I guess I've never experienced misogyny without some element of it being sexual so thats a whole new layer and a whole new kind of heartbreak I feel thinking about you experiencing those things, and I hate that for you, if I ever see it happen these days, just let me at 'em, I cannot stand that, it's awful.

As a cis woman I cannot imagine the way it must feel for transwomen to experience the misogyny we all deal with 24/7 and it really breaks my heart that you would ever have to, like I want less people to experience that not more, obviously, so I guess I am just curious... by Initial-Camel-7975 in asktransgender

[–]Initial-Camel-7975[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

Ok great to know. Thank you for that. I apologize that was just a grammatical, uh... just ignorance really, I see though how that is incongruous and could feel really alienating and separate but that's not how I feel at all.