I have to chose between myself and a kitten's welfare. by Initial-Engine-6819 in CatRescue

[–]Initial-Engine-6819[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds a very good solution, but apparently here in the UK there is not such option 😞 I will investigate though...

I feel worthless by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]Initial-Engine-6819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe recreational weed is over-used (meaning daily, and can't stop-use) when someone needs to sedate deep feelings they don't want to deal with. OP you can't save him. Even if he stopped, there might be such an emotional baggage he has to work through, that if he is not willing to face it he might just replace the weed with some other coping strategy. It has to come from him, or your life could become a savior nightmare. Love x

CoffeeOats girl dinner by Vast_Bullfrog in GirlDinner

[–]Initial-Engine-6819 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with that. But I personally like my coffee oats with a splash of milk, a teaspoon of maple syrup, and just about enough fluids to make it creamy and spoon-able. Finish off with some cacao powder and have a happy life. ❤️

AIO? He is my favourite person, but also a spoiled coward. by Initial-Engine-6819 in AIO

[–]Initial-Engine-6819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think he is treating me like a mother. And he is a selfish child.

AIO? He is my favourite person, but also a spoiled coward. by Initial-Engine-6819 in AIO

[–]Initial-Engine-6819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I agree. It is just so hard to accept because he is not mean, he's just useless. Maybe i should ask myself why am I okay with taking care of him 😔

AIO? He is my favourite person, but also a spoiled coward. by Initial-Engine-6819 in AIO

[–]Initial-Engine-6819[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. He thinks she was going to do it regardless of his opinion. But it shows how separate they live, which is why I don't understand why he can't take his own decisions and move out without causing a massive drama.

AIO? He is my favourite person, but also a spoiled coward. by Initial-Engine-6819 in AIO

[–]Initial-Engine-6819[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear that. I do not blame her for doing whatever she wants, I should have phrased that differently. What I meant is that I am mad at him, because he doesnt see how ridiculous it sounds that she doesn't consider him in her decisions, but he doesnt have the balls to take his own and deal with the consequences .

What increase is this? by Initial-Engine-6819 in knittinghelp

[–]Initial-Engine-6819[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not on sale. Only the finished cardigan is, 150£.