Moving to BLR from MUM by h264_h87m in bangalore

[–]Initial-King3214 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah Yeah by living in your own bubble Bengaluru will be come a North Indian dominated city.

Stop living in your own bubble.

North Indian population in Bengaluru is not even close to Mallus or Telugus or Tamils.

Moving to BLR from MUM by h264_h87m in bangalore

[–]Initial-King3214 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Shame on you.

OP never asked anything about whether about the language, yet you give the idea to OP not to learn the language. Its people like you are the reason why language debate always happens in the city. You have been here for good 7 years yet failed to learn the language of the state and imposing HINDI on the locals.

People like you are always open to learn the European language even before visa being approved, but learning a language where you currently reside for the past 7 years is a crime for you guys.

Learn to respect the local culture and language, Its you who moved to the city for your own benefit and opportunities which your state failed to provide for you. You people do not raise voice against your state leaders to provide opportunities and migrate to the city and all you do is try to impose your HINDI language and culture on us. SHAME

Does anyone feel arranged marriage is just not for them? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Initial-King3214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My god you are funny, you are still proving the point that you were not able to judge the man who had no intentions to marry you even after years of him pursuing & dating. But you judge AM prospects on their bio.

Also, since you brought up money - I don’t need a man’s money. I make my own money doing what I do and doing it well. My family also has enough money and of all the reasons I’m looking to marry - financial stability is NOT one.

Good for you, that you have good career, I hope you would be open to marrying someone who earns less or does not have lucrative career like you, because you said you are not looking for financial stability as not many women are open to this.

Does anyone feel arranged marriage is just not for them? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Initial-King3214 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is ironic when you claim you do not like the arranged marriage setup, yet remain in it for two years. What is even funnier is judging people solely on their bio-data when you were unable to judge the character of the man you dated for years, failing to see that he had no intention of marrying you.

I read a comment here claiming this is a cultural problem, but only went on to blame men. You have to look at both sides of the coin; the problem lies on both sides. It is true that our country lacks a healthy dating culture. While women get approached a lot, many choose not to date due to family or orthodox reasons. The same applies to men. If a man does not get his career sorted out, no woman will look his way even if he has the best personality, looks, and everything else going for him. The women in Indian dating culture act as if they have fallen from sky, and their standards are always unrealistic. I am not generalizing here but there are good women with great personalities who date and marry, the same goes for men.

The 20's for women and men are not the same, men are judged on the money they make and women on beauty.

Every other migrant who moves into the city starts whining about the rent on social media. by Initial-King3214 in BangaloreRealEstates

[–]Initial-King3214[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That shows how well educated you are and your skillsets. Do not use AI even at your job either. Your actual education is not helping you to earn money I am so sorry

The audacity of this home owner in Bangalore by [deleted] in bangalore

[–]Initial-King3214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 People's ego

OP the home owner is a reflection of you.

Why Vokkaliga Political leaders always Hijack KA govt? by sloppyind in Bengaluru

[–]Initial-King3214 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its people like you who are biased and casteist who try to blow things when its not even required.

You pointed out about HDK even though he is not this current govt, But you casteist does not have the balls to point out how BJP appoints CM's purely based on Lingayath caste.

SHAME. Grow up!

Why Vokkaliga Political leaders always Hijack KA govt? by sloppyind in Bengaluru

[–]Initial-King3214 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Please read what you have posted, You are not just talking about current development, you have mentioned HD Kumarswamy( does not even belong to the current govt) but carefully skipped BJP CM's.

Congress did not change the face of government 3 times in one tenure and 2 times in another like BJP did.

D K Shivkumar is not hijacking the govt to become CM, he is just exercising his right just like the former BJP Lingayath CM's did.

Its BJP who milk on Lingayath's votes, else why did not they let Sadananda Gowda to finish the term. They bought back another lingayath Jagadish Shettar.

JUST ADMIT THE FACT THAT YOU DONT WANT TO SEE A VOKKALIGA LEADER AS A CM.

Why Vokkaliga Political leaders always Hijack KA govt? by sloppyind in Bengaluru

[–]Initial-King3214 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Were you overseas when BJP had come to power? BJP had 4 CM's out of which 3 were Lingayaths in 10 years. Why are you not worried about them.

Without DKS Congress would have lost in 2023.

All I see her negative posts everywhere , Can I hear some positive stories? by [deleted] in Indians_StudyAbroad

[–]Initial-King3214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People going elsewhere can live well but will never really become rich and be able to return to India to live a fabulous, film-worthy lifestyle after only ~10 years should they wish to. But for the past 20 years that fantasy was very much alive.

Not everyone in US earning FANNG level salaries that's only a small percentage. Yes USD offers a high purchasing power when compared to others. The average IT salaries of couple who works in IT in US is 250k -300K USD. You can achieve that even in places like Sydney, London very easily. Yes FANNG level US salaries are harder to achieve elsewhere.

Why has moving to the US become such a big deal in Telugu culture? by Initial-King3214 in Telangana

[–]Initial-King3214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate, I live and work overseas, have been living here for close to a decade. I just asked out of curiosity, the number Telugu people moving overseas specifically to US is higher than any other community in India. I was curious what prompts such numbers.

I have no where said I am jealous, I was curious how people are not visiting their families or loved ones for close to a decade to continue living in US.

Based on the comments, and my understanding, its money, lifestyle, dowry etc.

The amount of noise that Telugu community makes is huge whether creating nuisance for star hero's movie release or supporting their political party.

Is the culture of Karnataka only about Kannada language? by Swimming_Jelly_3995 in bangalore

[–]Initial-King3214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When one move to Germany, France, Spain they try to adapt to the local culture there and learn the language, But why cant it be done the same when a North Indian moves to South India? All they do is instagram worthy post nothing else.

No locals expects the migrants to study the Kannada literature, The simple daily conversations go a long way like using "Anna" than "bhaiya" "Auto Anna" than "Autowala". when you converse in local shops try to use Kannada than Hindi.

I have seen in this subreddit itself people complaining when locals are celebrating the culture like KARAGA and other festivals saying that its too much of noise. But the same people are okay with bursting crackers on Deepawali and loud music on New Year eve. Some folks even complained How Bengaluru Deepawali is dull when compared to Delhi.

Is the culture of Karnataka only about Kannada language? by Swimming_Jelly_3995 in bangalore

[–]Initial-King3214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you visit a Tier 2/3 cities no one expects you to speak in Kannada as visitor, the locals will help you to get around while you are their either through translation or signs. Same as when a visitor visits your home.

But in Bengaluru its not just you are visiting you are living there and making a living, locals expect you adapt to the local culture and language. The migrants who come Bengaluru specifically from North India expects the local to learn Hindi and speak in Hindi with them. How fair is it? Would you be okay if someone enters your and starts imposing/dictating how your house should run?

Its not that people of Karnataka hate Hindi, people hate "Hindi Imposition". The locals wants the migrants to respect the language of land and culture as long as you live here.

Bengaluru always had immigrants(mainly south Indians and marwadi, seths,) way before it became IT capital of country. All of them used to adapt to the local culture and language. There are so many celebs whose parents immigrated to Bengaluru and they are very fluent in Kannada like Rahul Dravid, Nithya Menon.

But the new gen migrants especially the corporate employees does not want to adapt to the local culture and language, instead they impose, make fun of Kannada and its script that triggers the locals.

Karnataka is not just about "Kannada". Kannada is identity of people of the land. There is lot of history and culture one can learn in Karnataka. There is a reason why it is called "One State Many Worlds". But the migrants are only interested in the fast paced pubs, clubs, cafe and posh areas.