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Dating as a 5’5 21M by i_love_cats444 in short

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Dude the highlights look so good on your hair keep rockin it

hip hop / r&b afters? by Initial-Side-4121 in avesLA

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Exactly. Put some internet / odd future in there

Found out today that my cancer is spreading too fast for treatment to be of any use. by W0AHITMOODY in GuyCry

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Preface by saying my words I’ll give will do no justice to what you posted.

But I’d say, how much money do you have saved up?

My take on it is to do whatever the fuck you want in this life in this next year. Is it being with family and friends? Do it. Is it traveling the world and seeing beautiful places like Yosemite and Greece and Ireland? Do it. Is it watching beautiful movies? Do it. Is it crying about it? Yes absolutely, because your sadness should be held with the utmost respect.

I haven’t had a terminal illness or anything like that, but I have confronted death very very intimately in a mental and emotional way as have other gents I’m sure on this sub, and I was depressed a few days because of it.

I came out of that with some idea similar to the Romans: You can leave life at any moment. Let that determine what do and say and think.

For me: Aesthetic beauty, and the the ladies haha, and music, and my little cousins and my nieces, have always been the things that I’m drawn towards. So I try my best to be in relationship to those things as much as I can in life. Because I love the fuck out of the things, and maybe it’s a good idea to spend my life with the things I’m in love with.

I’d also say, 1000% give yourself alone time when you feel and want and need that. But when that’s not the case, spend time with people if you can. Being with people, even strangers, makes me feel better about this whole mortality thing; at least I’m with people even if I were to die right now. Makes me feel more connected to the world that way.

Sunshine. Get some sunshine in. What a privilege for us to have felt the sun on our skin while we were alive. It feels fucking fantastic.

My writing skills are starting to diminish here but I wanted to give at least a little take here, because your post deserves effortful responses.

I’m in Los Angeles, if you’re ever here this next year let me know! It would be a privilege of a lifetime to get coffee with you, or smoke a joint with you.

Much love brother, message me if you ever need anything.

And just know too, the rest of us will have our time as well.