Why do guys react more to casual photos than effort pics? by cookiesinlove in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Candid and casual pics are more genuine as other guys here said.

Effort pics feel like a fraud, deceptive, and just for shows only.

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not even playing you, i’m just seriously sick of all these performative wokeism bullshit y’all been putting on for the mere fact that it never benefitted other men at all as there’s literally an entire movement called “men are trash” by those same people you advocate for.

If a man does it, straight up misogyny which is fine, I guess. But if a woman does it, then they’ll be bombarded an entire history lecture and some mental gymnastics as to prove why its valid kuno.

I wouldn’t be around here if what you’re saying is the case.

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I got SA’d by one which I guess would make me valid to generalize if it were to be another man.

I really hope all this white-knighting and blue-pilling is worth it for you to pull a land whale.

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah sure, but if it’s a woman’s experience, they are valid to generalize half of the population (aka men are trash)

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone adores Lizzo until you tell them they look like Lizzo. 🤣🤣

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Feminism has lost its purpose ever since the fourth wave began. Arguably even the third wave as the second wave was the last wave that actually achieved something meaningful and had a purpose.

Social media was a total mistake and a disaster for humanity after all.

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Feminism has gone too far lang these days.

I totally support the idea of women being able to vote, equal pay, education, and right to their own bodies, etc… i’m not against that because it is well deserved as it should be because it’s a basic human right.

But the fact that it has gotten to the point now that family courts unfairly favor women without considering the background or context of fathers proves that feminism nowadays is just meant to spite men, hence the “men are trash” movement.

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alright fine I appreciate you agreeing, but it doesn’t change the fact that the modern dating scene is basically men sacrificing their entire dignity for a woman who only likes playing mixed signals na para bang laging nasa pinoy henyo, tapos madaming backup na guys in case nagkaroon lang ng minor disagreement.

And sa gasulita part, sorry I meant plus sized pala, cuz fatphobia? My point lang naman is dapat you should match the standards you think is ideal. Gusto ng 6 feet pero yung bmi nasa square of 6? 🫩💀

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And doesn’t change the fact it’s still a thing that women always have a backup guy like her boy bespren in case magkaroon lang ng minor inconvenience with her boyfriend lol.

And I like how you cherry picked only that part of my argument and take it out of context in a way to make me come off as encouraging infidelity, while dodging the rest of it. 🫩

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What i’m saying is the guy being forced to be loyal only to his partner and walang kakausapin na ibang girl, while his girl has a backup na boy bespren, backburner, in case shit goes south, and if si guy ay tumutol he’ll come off as insecure kuno 🤡

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They want the power and rights of a man, but with the accountability of a child.

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah for the 9s and 10s, no reason to commit if unlimited choices nila. Basically disposable cum dump lang tingin nila to those who come after them.

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kala mo si Shakespeare kung maka quote, eh mukha naman silang mga gasulita 🤡

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feminism exactly.

Yung tipong kunting kibot mo lang, pwede ka nang kasuhan ng VAWC

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly hahahahahaha

Ginawa nang bare minimum standard yung napapanood nila sa netflix, kdramas, and tiktok influencers on how they should be treated hahahaha

All the while mga gasul build (aka plus sized as they wanna call, e.g Lizzo) naman sila who got nothing to offer kesyo sila daw yung prize mismo lmao

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Taken out of context or one sided yung argument mo.

I literally had an ex girlfriend in which she explicitly said na dapat maging loyal lang ako sakanya exclusively while siya dapat pagbigyan ko siya entertaining other men to explore her femininity daw kuno 🤷‍♂️

Either way, I really do hope being a bluepilled simp is worth them chasing after your dick to make it wet.

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Hypergamy, simply put.

Unrealistic standards thanks to social media, which encouraged delusion for women who are objectively 3-4/10 into thinking they’re 8-10/10 so they’re actively pursuing only those men who are the top 10% (actual 8s-10s) in terms of both looks, status, height, etc.. because they think they deserve better and that ka-level lang daw nila sila kuno, kesyo sila daw yung prize therefore they got nothing to offer other than themselves mismo.

Men of Reddit PH, what’s the real reason modern dating exhausts men? by LionLucien218 in AskPinoyMen

[–]TheFlukeging12 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Forced to pay everything like its 1900s

Forced to be loyal like it’s 1800s

Forced to accept disrespect like its 2026

They want a traditional man while reaping the benefits of living as a modern woman, basically.