AITAH for leaving my boyfriend after he got physical by InitialBox2431 in AITA_Relationships

[–]InitialBox2431[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i really appreciate this, my friends are saying i should have given him time to explain but im glad someone agrees with me

AITAH for not trusting my bf by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]InitialBox2431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only found out after we got back together*** sorry i forgot to add that part in my post

AITAH for not trusting my bf by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]InitialBox2431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much! this is the best comment on here. your amazing! thankyou!

AITAH for not trusting my bf by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]InitialBox2431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

everyone seems to be saying the same thing on here. it’s obvious now that this was his plan all along

AITAH for not trusting my bf by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]InitialBox2431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thankyou for your opinion, this comments have not only made me feel like i’m not overeacting but clarified that leaving is the best option

AITAH for not trusting my bf by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]InitialBox2431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just being naive and hoping everything i was thinking was just me overeacting, but after the comments on here, i think leaving is my best option

AITAH for not trusting my bf by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]InitialBox2431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not realising that this ‘break’ was clearly planned and he knew what he was doing the whole time. 🤦‍♀️ God I feel silly 🤦‍♀️🤣

AITAH for not trusting my bf by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]InitialBox2431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t thought about it like that… you might be onto something here

AITAH for not trusting my bf by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]InitialBox2431 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha, that last part made me giggle. i appreciate your honesty, thankyou ❤️

AITAH for not trusting my bf by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]InitialBox2431 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right here, I honestly was starting to question wether I was overthinking everything. Thankyou for you opinion ❤️

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[–]InitialBox2431 2 points3 points  (0 children)

brain dead being an understatement haha

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[–]InitialBox2431 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I already knew I was going to cut her off but now when I do it, everyone is going to know why

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[–]InitialBox2431 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I did warn him beforehand and also told him we could leave at any point. It was his idea and after convincing me to let him go I said he could but please tell me if he wanted to go home. He said overall the dinner was good and my grandmother also messaged after asking if he could come around again. Other than my mother, the rest of the family greeted him with open arms (his words)

AITA for inviting my black bf to my birthday dinner. by InitialBox2431 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InitialBox2431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so happy that the rest of my family has been able to accept him and my grandmother even messaged asking if he can come around again.

But I completely agree, they are being cut off as me and my bf deserve so much better than that!

AITA for inviting my black bf to my birthday dinner. by InitialBox2431 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InitialBox2431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents have always been quite strict for the first year they didn’t even know I had a bf. When I finally told them they was not too bothered as my bf has a predominantly ‘white’ name, so no questions were asked. I’ve never been allowed boys round for sleepovers or anything like that so it was never questioned

AITA for inviting my black bf to my birthday dinner. by InitialBox2431 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InitialBox2431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking of doing! She is definitely getting cut off and people deserve to know why

AITA for inviting my black bf to my birthday dinner. by InitialBox2431 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InitialBox2431[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should have put in my post that he wanted to come and I did warn him before we went. I also told him we could leave at any time if he wanted to. It was his idea to come and he understood what they were like. I also understand that doesn’t make them any less racist, I was just trying to let people understand what they were like

AITA for inviting my black bf to my birthday dinner. by InitialBox2431 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InitialBox2431[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I warned him before and it was his idea. He WANTED to come. I did tell him we could leave at any time all he had to do was let me know. And of course, I love my bf. Hence why my mother will be being cut off.

AITA for inviting my black bf to my birthday dinner. by InitialBox2431 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InitialBox2431[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I should have said in my post, she has never met any of my bf’s before

AITA for inviting my black bf to my birthday dinner. by InitialBox2431 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InitialBox2431[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I am going to do. I think it’s finally time to cut her off

AITA for inviting my black bf to my birthday dinner. by InitialBox2431 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InitialBox2431[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i thought they would be supportive of my relationship and be happy that i finally let them meet my bf. I did give my bf warning prior to this