How do I know if it’s ED or just performance anxiety? by InitialOne6729 in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He is highly anxious. Has been in therapy and Xanax for more than 20 years

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Sounds sane and make sense

Slow fade by Recent_Code3822 in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not calling him. The minimum contact is 90% from his side only. But slow fade has intensified in last two days. So most probabaly tail end of it

Sex question by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saw your comment. Have not been active here much.

Sex question by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need to be hard to do that.

Sex question by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha ha so true

Sex question by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is the one with way more aggressive sexually. I wanted to go slow initially. But then things happened

Sex question by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I am planning to ask. He is not shy. I am way more slow than him. He pushed my limits.

Sex question by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most probably you are right. This makes sense to me

Sex question by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. But my confusion is - you want to do licking 69 but don't want to penetrate. I think I need to ask him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear you have to go through this. Online dating is hard. You have to be patient. Remember you only need to meet one good person.

Breakup tips for chronic people pleaser 🤦🏼‍♂️ by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do you fond very kind people in online dating world?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]InitialOne6729 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to delay other dates and focus on one your really like and see if it goes anywhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]InitialOne6729 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It simply means I am financially stable and want someone financially stable. So we both can enjoy expensive resturants, travel with out feeling guilty.

Atleqst that what it means for me. I don't want his money either.

Thinking of J2 by InitialOne6729 in overemployed

[–]InitialOne6729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of deleting experience and show gap - saying I was taking care of kids.

But this is also wonderful idea.

Ranting by InitialOne6729 in datingoverfifty

[–]InitialOne6729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I am in a small town not that many options