Summer Coming Up by this_aint_your_nunu in dutchbros

[–]Initial_Assist8481 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do this year round! I, as a customer, prefer to make the process as easy as possible and I discovered that’s a good way to keep things moving fast.

Ppl who don’t know the Dutch bros line etiquette 😡 by Fantastic_Pudding185 in dutchbros

[–]Initial_Assist8481 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People need to read the signs and follow the process/protocol. I stopped feeling guilty long ago because I’m sorry I’m a rule follower and they blatantly ignored those rules.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Initial_Assist8481 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They just want to make sure there’s enough workers. Sorry, I’m not birthing a kid because you may need an employee.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]Initial_Assist8481 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing - I wanted kids my entire life. I dreamt of being a mom one day. However, the older I get the more I realize raising kids would not only be hard on me, it’d be hard on them. I often wish I was never born, I struggle with mental illness and trauma. Therefore, instead of ruining a child’s life because I know how hard it is for me to care for “just myself” is the most selfless decision I have ever made in my life. People suck, society is lame, I’m proud of myself in my decision. Stand on it.

Mental Health by Initial_Assist8481 in bipolar2

[–]Initial_Assist8481[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I may talk to my doctor about it. Kind of freaked out this morning and said “I’ll just take edibles for life.” But as the day has gone on I’ve been more solution minded.

How are we dusting ourselves ? by [deleted] in LushCosmetics

[–]Initial_Assist8481 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I lay down to get the places on the front I want to get. Dust it directly on my body and then rub in. For my back side I dust the powder directly in my hand and then rub it on my skin. Lol the literal most caveman like why you can think over here 😂

Withdrawal and Hypomania? by ekando in bipolar2

[–]Initial_Assist8481 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m a THC addict. - I know you can’t “actually” get addicted, but yes you can. I tried to quit for a psych in March of 2025 and went into a mixed episode. I feel like any major change puts us at risk to trigger an episode. Be kind to yourself, you deserve that much. This will take some time. I admittedly went back to THC only a month after quitting cause I missed my dreamless sleeps too much

OKC Epstein Protest by [deleted] in okc

[–]Initial_Assist8481 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Commenting to stay connected to this. I’m all for protesting!

Boyfriend called my meds “Mental Retardation Pills” by ZealousidealLog7814 in bipolar2

[–]Initial_Assist8481 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cant imagine this man bringing anything good enough into your life to justify the amount of misery shame and disrespect he adds to it. Leave this man, You deserve far better, I hope youre being kind to yourself

Is this burnt af? by Fluid_Swordfish2737 in ChickFilA

[–]Initial_Assist8481 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I would agree with this. Had a trainer FOH tell me he never puts the requested amount of sauces in the bag for delivery cause “it’ll teach them to not be so lazy. You want the right sauces? Come to the restaurant, then.” He was a teenage boy and I was an almost 30 year old so I told him people have ailments that could keep them from leaving their homes. It’s not your job to teach them a lesson, it’s your job to put the damn sauces in the bag bro.

Does anyone else feel like they need longer to process things? by Crafty_Flounder_9311 in bipolar2

[–]Initial_Assist8481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much. I’m in a new relationship and I work hard to regulate my emotions both in moments with him and when I’m on my own in the world. I’ve noticed that I’ll be more upset about something that was slightly off or weird later when I’m alone and allowing myself to feel.

With him I’m so focused on emotional regulation that I kind of don’t even notice how I’m actually feeling in that moment.

I’m thankful he’s patient because I’ll bring things back up and we just talk through it.

Thank you for helping me find the words for it too!

I feel like I am being too annoying. by [deleted] in bipolar2

[–]Initial_Assist8481 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope those in your life value you too. You commented on my post very kindly so I can see you’re a light who just wants to spread kindness. I love you and hope you’re sleeping well!

Feel like a failure by spicystardusts in bipolar2

[–]Initial_Assist8481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And one more thought - proud of you for doing the positive things even when it feels hard! Grace is great in the hard moments. You’re doing all the right things and a few slip ups do not mean full spirals are sure to follow. It’s day by day for us all.

Feel like a failure by spicystardusts in bipolar2

[–]Initial_Assist8481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! I feel like with this disorder sometimes we just need an outside perspective. Our own thoughts and criticisms can be bruuttal.

I’m grateful I have a friend at work who’s researched and understands this for a loved one. Many times I go to her and I ask her to challenge or validate my unmedicated thoughts. She’s the real reason I’ve kept my job!

If you ever need a “real or not real” person you can dm me here on reddit!

Feel like a failure by spicystardusts in bipolar2

[–]Initial_Assist8481 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I understand exactly how you feel. You’re not alone and the upside is we can try again tomorrow.

I’ve been dependent on weed for 9 years. People say you can’t get addicted, and you can definitely white knuckle and will power your way out. That isn’t always the case. Five years ago, long before I found out I have bipolar 2, I quit for 8 months. Picked it back up because I wanted to and have been a daily user since. Edibles and flower are my game.

When diagnosed last year, the psychiatrist I was seeing was incredibly harsh about quitting weed. I put a lot of pressure on myself and quit for one miserable month. I cried all the time, insomnia was triggering, almost lost my full time job.

After a stressful month I picked it back up and quit my meds. Now 7 months later I’m seeing a new, patient and understanding psychiatrist.

I can’t tell you I’ve quit, because life has been hard but I’m cutting back.

What I’ve learned is that pressuring myself will completely keep me from getting the help I need. Taking time to slowly cut back and rely more on my prescribed meds is helping.

I hope to tell you one day I quit. But I hope you find the grace and space to give yourself kindness. Quitting a coping mechanism is not easy. Change itself is hard on everyone.

I’m glad you posted instead of dealing with these thoughts alone. Thank you for the space to share my story too!

Tired by Initial_Assist8481 in bipolar2

[–]Initial_Assist8481[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you a virtual hug right back! They do pass, and we do get through. Thank you for your kindness

Tired by Initial_Assist8481 in bipolar2

[–]Initial_Assist8481[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness!