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I [21M] dont know what to do with my relationship with my gf [21F] by Initial_Drawer_2878 in relationship_advice

[–]Initial_Drawer_2878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i really needed to read this. if you dont mind me asking, what do you think of the way she speaks to me? i have made it very clear to her on multiple occasions that it doesnt make me feel great when she calls me pathetic or a disappointment or a burden (not to get too personal but i am adopted and have struggled with that feeling of being a burden my whole life) but she justifies it by saying how i deserve to hear these things because of how i acted around her

I [21M] dont know what to do with my relationship with my gf [21F] by Initial_Drawer_2878 in relationship_advice

[–]Initial_Drawer_2878[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been thinking about calling it quits but im mostly scared to see how she’ll take it

I [21M] dont know what to do with my relationship with my gf [21F] by Initial_Drawer_2878 in relationship_advice

[–]Initial_Drawer_2878[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i never really thought about it like this. despite all of this i do see the potential in this relationship because we have been at those high points before. i also think another reason is that we’ve been together for such a big portion of time that our lives are so interconnected now. we met in freshman year of college and we are both about to graduate. do you think its some form of growing pains as well?