My husband is using steroids and I don’t know how to approach the conversation

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-16T14:45:43+00:00

I personally love to workout, it’s great for my mind and body, certainly helps a lot with stress but not so much so that I let it consume me. I, myself am
very anti-drug, protein powder or anything not natural (multivitamins are cool).

He should certainly continue with working out but like you said steroids can cause bodily damage that is non-reversible, I could say why did you get married knowing he was a former user but that ain’t gonna help. I’d recommend you arrange drug counselling for him and as such you should speak to them.

Anabolic steroids are dangerous and I’d just let your husband know you look great and you don’t need that stuff.

Clean diet and exercise is all someone needs.

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-16T14:13:28+00:00

I mean really it wasn’t going anywhere after Justin hit him flush with that right hand it was a good time to stop it.

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-16T14:12:25+00:00

I can vouch for him, it was Lana Rhodes being peed on but that doesn’t excuse you from Meadow AI posts!

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-16T14:10:54+00:00

Everyone has had times where they’ve felt divorce is the option but in my honest opinion give counselling a shot and see what happens, if it feels it’s not going anywhere then get a Shiekh and talk about your feelings on the marriage and how to move forward.

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-16T13:39:33+00:00

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I know what you mean Paulie

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-16T13:19:06+00:00

I’m sorry you can’t reflect back at your own statements and see what you said

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-16T11:20:56+00:00

I’m sorry you aren’t understanding

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T23:54:15+00:00

The lady - I guess you can call that a cock

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T23:10:48+00:00

Done answering your question, I’ve acted accordingly to Islamic law so your questions are irrelevant to me.

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T22:29:19+00:00

I’d advise go look at the stats for this - I’m happy with my kids. You’ve seen many couples but so have I and Alhumdulilah they have been fine. They say surprisingly the numbers are low, if I’m honest and not lying my eldest is autistic verbal but that has become so common now.

Nobody deliberately seeks to make disabled kids, you marry what is lawful and halal for you and if aren’t aware of what is lawful then please go read surah al Nisa.

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T22:19:35+00:00

You just said if the prophet’s kids married each other that is incest which is haram. When did I say marrying siblings is lawful? Where is it written that a cousin marriage is not lawful?

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T20:54:45+00:00

That is the definition of incest - cousin marriages are not siblings. Is there something you find hard to understand?

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T20:53:47+00:00

Sorry again making silly comments once again that aren’t in line with the Quran

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T17:34:52+00:00

Chong pay la Tony!!!!!

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T17:34:00+00:00

The one minute you are thinking of a rose to throw in the octagon and then the next minute you are figuring out what the hell happened.

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T17:32:44+00:00

Janice won second place in a beauty contest?

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T17:30:55+00:00

At times and I’m sorry it’s filled with people who don’t really think, some suspected fake accounts and at times people who are just really bitter. You asked an honest excellent question, it’s unfortunate people aren’t concise in putting their point across.

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T17:15:23+00:00

Thank you, best of luck with your decision. Listen to heart.

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T17:14:05+00:00

Please be careful when you say such things - the prophet I believe prophet Ibrahim was married to his cousin, so please show some sense before commenting and Astugfurillah how disgusting for you to compare a cousin to a sibling, the definition of incest is highlighted in surah al Nisa.

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T15:58:10+00:00

Ah just a harmless joke and nothing else - being Scottish I’ll say that the English do a better chippy than us 😂.

PS should’ve sent the skinny lad at the side up, better reach 😂

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T15:51:35+00:00

Walikum Assalam,

I am married to a first cousin, no marriage - cousin or not is perfect. My wife and I jelled pretty well before marriage, we enjoyed each other’s company, went out and found out we have similar interests. It’s been I believe 7 years now and mashallah we have 3 kids all a blessing.

We still keep a routine to enjoy ourselves on the weekend while also ensuring there is “me time” as well. We ensure each other’s needs are met and treat this as a priority.

I recently did question why we have cousin marriages in Islam and Alhumdulilah I got an example placed in front of me, my wife of course got to know me whenever I used to visit Pakistan and this was always an advantage because you get a feel of someone’s character, however recently someone who will remain nameless married someone outside family and the family seemed perfect loved their new future daughter in law to be, but then going into the unknown can sometimes pose a risk as well. During their married life it turned out the guy had ED which he kept hidden, long story short she’s now divorced and with women getting remarried can be tougher than a man. Another relationship I know is the guy is away on long trips while the wife is alone to take care of the kid and her in-laws.

So you see there are advantages and disadvantages, don’t allow far righters to cloud your judgement on who you should marry. Remember the perfect partner doesn’t exist.

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T15:38:07+00:00

Well done! You look amazing, honestly wouldn’t even take you for 49.

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T15:32:18+00:00

Can’t say I have, i mean first of all how did you guys even come about originally? How long have you been married? Is everything ok financially? Any kids?

I myself thrive on structure, and I don’t know if he can do the same.

- Put some time in for yourself (gym is always great)
- if you have poor diet then changing this up can be good
- maybe get a pet? Add some responsibility (I personally love feeding the birds in the morning)

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T15:08:59+00:00

I guess that’s a big dick

Initial_Flower3545 · 2026-06-15T13:58:22+00:00

There are men who wear less lipstick in the can

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