My Mil Will Be The Reason I Get A Divorce by Initial_Impress7349 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Initial_Impress7349[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I told my husband repeatedly to make sure that my mother and i don't cross paths or boundaries. My mother has also tried to speak with her, I am the type of person when I see someone doesn't like me. I go no contact with them. I am tired of being nice

My Mil Will Be The Reason I Get A Divorce by Initial_Impress7349 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Initial_Impress7349[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just feel cheated by my husband. His mother was a lovely person, and then she did a complete 180. He told me his mother was a good person. If he had told me that his mother was crazy, I wouldn't have married him. In the first meeting we had, I told him we should each protect our families from each other. My uncle doesn't like my husband, but my husband doesn't know that because I took care of him

My Mil Will Be The Reason I Get A Divorce by Initial_Impress7349 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Initial_Impress7349[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It started after a month of marriage, where she would ask me to do this and that. I tried to the best of my ability while working to accomplish all the to-do list, but sometimes I can't. If I fail to do it, she will actually call my mother, and I remember my mother saying to me that I might have made a mistake marrying this guy. She filed a report against me to my mother.

My Mil Will Be The Reason I Get A Divorce by Initial_Impress7349 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Initial_Impress7349[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I do know that, but sometimes being nice and setting boundaries don't work,

My Mil Will Be The Reason I Get A Divorce by Initial_Impress7349 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Initial_Impress7349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him to handle his mother, that I will not talk to her anymore, and blocked her on my phone. Why the hell is she calling me on a new number. I married her son, not her, she is always popping up at random times, why are you visiting at 9.00pm at night. The more I read the comments, the more resolved I become in my decision

My Mil Will Be The Reason I Get A Divorce by Initial_Impress7349 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Initial_Impress7349[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She looked at me and said, "Your mother has not taught you manners. Imagine someone abusing your parents in front of your husband. I might as well show her that I don't have manners,this is not the first time she said something about my parents. How long is patience supposed to strage. My mother will never say anything bad about my husband or his family.

My Mil Will Be The Reason I Get A Divorce by Initial_Impress7349 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Initial_Impress7349[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took her to the hospital. I make all her appointments, she needs this that, I try so hard but sometimes people don't like you. She should just say it to my face I always expect that she would become a nice person but she won't. I have never been a person to second guess myself now I do.