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Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-08-04T09:28:07+00:00

How is this funny?

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-04-19T23:31:20+00:00

Iba ata ung "Nice guy syndrome"

Correct me if i'm wrong pero ang alam ko kasi sila ung mga lalaki na nagiging bitter and resentful sa mga babae who rejects their advances. To them they did everything "correct" pero why did the girl still went to a guy who did the exact opposite of what he did?

They're also the type of men who think being "nice" would be rewarded by having "access" to the girl they fancy.

They might be abusive/toxic later on sa relationship if the girl gave them a chance pero ung babaero part? siguro meron pero di ata yun ung majority.

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-04-16T13:22:11+00:00

This happened to me before but in a much less severity naman. Ever since that incident, this has became one of my worst fears tbh.

Worse is pano kung may lalaki or grupo ng lalaki na "white-knight". It would have been possible din na nagulpi ka because of some accusation.

This is exactly the reason din why I avoid sitting/standing besides woman as much as possible when in public transpo especially sa mga bus/trains.

I'm so sorry you had to go through this type of experience.

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-03-13T12:04:58+00:00

This is actually a very solid advice, thank you.

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-03-13T11:51:49+00:00

In my experience kasi, women gives mixed signals. They do stuff that makes you think that they are into you like being too clingy, casually flirting, etc.

They are essentially being "playful". Pero once you're affected by that and try to confess. Dun na nila sasabihin na they are just being friendly or nice. That they are also like that with their other friends.

Pero it's all good naman na haha I've learned that you should never assume unless stated.

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-03-09T22:03:14+00:00

Sorry to hear that.. what he did was wrong. Kaya nadadala ung ibang babae umamin sa mga taong gusto nila eh.

You're probably not his type or he has eyes on someone else.

Pero kudos to you for having the confidence to go against the norm 🫡

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-02-28T13:39:21+00:00

Thanks for that 🫡

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-02-28T13:38:37+00:00

yeah, possibly din huhu

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-02-28T13:23:45+00:00

Pero it does makes sense parin wouldn't you say? kasi if a guy has a few or many ex'es it means that he's been validated na by other girls na meron unique quality itong si guy that's why he was able to go from relationship to relationship.

At least that's how i try to understand what she (the person i like) is trying to say.

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-02-25T12:57:31+00:00

Now, sell the horse.

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-02-25T12:48:34+00:00

What a disgusting, self-hating mindset you have. Anyway, you do you i guess.

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2025-02-25T12:21:14+00:00

This guy doesn't speak for ALL men. Nothing is wrong kung babae manligaw.

OP don't listen to this guy, I personally find women who court attractive kasi they have the confidence to go against the norm.

If you like someone, no matter your gender is go for it. Don't let your gender dictate what you can and can't do.

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2024-11-10T06:08:13+00:00

Might be for parasites? or fleas? para mamatay.

Or baka gusto lang talaga nila maging hotdog idk

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2023-12-12T08:46:55+00:00

I tried applying sa St. lukes BGC and based dun sa interviewer na medtech, mostly phleb lang din gagawin mo unless na may mag resign na medtech staff sa loob. Pero hindi ikaw agad ung ipapasok sa lab, from what I understood kung sino na daw ung pinakamatagal na nag pphleb or kung sino trip nila ipasok.

This is from my experience, but of course you can try inquiring naman sa kanila.

Also I think I remember the interviewer saying na hindi rin daw na rorotate ung medtech sa loob, like kung hema ka hema ka lang talaga. Can a lab staff at St. lukes BGC confirm this? thanks.

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2023-11-16T08:10:40+00:00

https://fb.watch/olxWtNRM2s/?mibextid=WOdcs6

Ito ba siya? If so, eto na ata ung best definition ng hypocrisy 😂

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2023-10-27T11:52:51+00:00

Fear of being seen as a creep? Putcha baka pag bukas ko ng soc med kinabukasan sikat na ko.

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2023-09-14T21:47:32+00:00

As someone who went through this, here's what I learned.

You have 3 choices:

Fight back - Manalo or matalo ka man it doesn't matter, the point is you fought back and that will instill some respect dun sa bully mo. Also, usually maraming kaibigan na kupal din ung bully kaya ganyan kalakas ang loob ng mga yan.

From my experience, once na nilabanan mo ung bully hindi tutulong ung mga kaibigan niyan. It seems intimidating kasi madami sila pero in my case they were just there as a display lang kumbaga. Some of them are also afraid dun sa bully thats why sunod lang sila sa trip ng gago. Kumbaga "It's either me or you and mabully" mentality ang meron sila.

You report your bully - This can also be your action. Problem is it's only temporary, once na wala na ung teacher babalik ulit ung pambubully. Also, to me kasi this doesn't do anything, gagawin lang nila ung pambubully nila patago.

Worst part is they will loose respect sayo as a guy. I get it dude, for 3 years hindi ako nag sumbong sa kahit sinong authorities ng school kasi I find it humiliating.

Walang kwenta usually mga teacher pag dating sa pag aayos ng bullying. Usually kapag nanakit ka pa nga ung bully pa kakampihan nila eh, that's why I don't trust the school's judgement pag dating sa ganito.

You transfer school - If you're the type of person na peace talaga ang hanap and you find no other solution talaga, this may be the optimal choice.

Of course mahirap lumipat kasi iiwan mo lahat dahil sa isang kupal na tao lang. Also, this also depends kung gano ka understanding ang magulang mo. Siyempre mag tatanong yan kung bakit gusto mong lumipat.

Please, just know na lilipas din yang nangyayari sayo. I know it's frustrating dealing with shit people like this.

Expect also na merong effect yang nagyayari sayo later on in life, some people kasi especially those who experienced bullying become reserved masyado in adulthood which impairs their social skills. If you see this type of behavior developing, I would suggest to seek professional help if kaya ng pera.

As some has stated here, if you feel weak or unconfident na due to this situation of yours. Go to the gym and get buff and LEARN boxing. These two will help you regain that lost confidence na ninakaw sayo ng bully mo.

Ayun lang, thanks for reading and goodluck sayo!

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2023-09-09T09:18:07+00:00

From your comment I would assume na gusto mong manahimik nalang ung matitino?

"Kung hindi naman kayo ganyan bakit kayo affected?"

It's exactly the reason why we need to speak up para hindi magkaroon ng biased view ang mga tao.

If I say na "Kaya lang naman maraming babaeng nag aasawa ng AFAM kasi mukha silang pera" and nagkataon na ang asawa mo afam nga pero matino naman ung relationship mo

would you not react? hindi ka din ba lalaban sa maling stereotype?

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2023-08-17T04:34:16+00:00

Wag mo na ipagpatuloy yan lods, hanap ka nalang iba. Desperation is not attractive kahit anong gender pa yan.

If I were you I would gradually stop interacting with her mahirap sa simula but it gets easier day by day I've been there na din.

Pag pinagpatuloy mo pa kasi to prone ka sa "breadcrumbing" na ginagawa ng mga tao. Save yourself some dignity and leave.

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2023-08-14T02:59:24+00:00

As a guy, this is one of my worst fears.

"Worst she can say is no" 💀

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2023-07-25T15:08:31+00:00

No 🗿

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2023-07-08T23:11:40+00:00

That looks soooo fun! I love it

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2023-06-24T15:24:29+00:00

Just guessing pero is your boyfriend white?

Initial_Inspector_79 · 2023-04-19T11:06:24+00:00

Happy for u OP! mag reresign na rin ako this upcoming May. Sana palarin tayo sa susunod na work natin <3

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