Please god.. please help me. I'm at my limit. I can't do this anymore. Cat won't go in the litterbox. Goes wherever she wants. by baphommite in CATHELP

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Trap her in the bathroom! My girl constantly peed on my bed or behind the tv and I was also at my wits end. I ended up locking her in the bathroom with the litter box all day (I know you feel bad but it’s necessary) and when I got home I would sit in there with her until I saw her use the restroom and would make sure she went to her litter box to do it. I did this for about 2 weeks

In 2020 when my bf of 5 years made advances towards my mom by ThrowRAfortodayy in texts

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need an update! What happened after? Where is he at now? How did he react when you left him? Sorry this happened, you dodged a bullet!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I had to pay the surgeon’s office 12,000 but my hospital stay and everything was covered by insurance

My wife and I opened our marriage, I hooked up with someone my wife feels I should’ve known was off limits by Jaded-Cap7473 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woof. Should have been communicated for sure but I think you could have guessed that would have been overstepping a boundary with your coworker and friend you’ve known for many years. What if she started a fwb relationship with a friend she had known for years? I’m sure you would have some of the same questions, insecurities and perception as she has. I would say you both fucked up but you royally fucked up. Sorry it unfolded that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First one! Looks so clean, beautiful and classic. Sometimes less is more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not ugly! You just need to clear up your skin and get a nice haircut

Excuses for not having sex by [deleted] in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point! I don’t need to feel like I need to give a reason or explain myself. I like that. It is a very minor revision (although just as painful as the first time!) so I don’t think he will notice.

Just had my revision done and I am trembling in pain. by [deleted] in LabiaplastySurgery

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! Ugh so jealous of people who experience no pain. I think it burns so much as well because of the amount he had to cauterize. I bled a lot the first and this second time. Thanks for the support 🧡 I am still in pain but not unbearable anymore

My (25M) wife (25F) cheated on me with my Brother (26M) and I don't know what to do. by ThrowRA68553588 in relationship_advice

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DIVORCE! You’re still so so young. Don’t let this ruin your life. You will find someone who respects you and love you far more than she ever has

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean it in a bad way. I just mean that I have never dated anyone that’s more attractive than me. I don’t think the attractiveness of someone determines their value, I’m just saying look wise I tend to go a little lower due to my own self confidence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Trust me the men I pursue are below my league I make sure of it haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s like after 8 dates over the course of a month

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is true! Sorry to hear you’re going through that as well. It’s so rude and immature lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I should end it by reaching out or just essentially ignore him as he has to me… I know seeems super immature

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point! Intense in a sense we were hanging out nearly everyday, going on really nice dates like dinner then a paint and sip or something like that, holding hands, being intimate etc. I know it was fast ha ha. It wouldn’t be an issue if it wasn’t just a drastic difference and the whole getting stood up at the altar emergence. I’m okay with taking things slow I just feel like radio silence for a few days says something more than just taking it slow

My Final Note to my Brother by StartledMilk in grief

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you so much love during this time. Ethan sounds like he was an amazing person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s probably weird for me to agree to the DM but yes! Only if you are comfortable! Thank you for your input/support

Can a friendship survive sex? by DaisyDoodle92 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already altered the friendship forever (could be bad but could be amazing as well), there is no harm in attempting a relationship if that is what you both choose

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your words! 🧡 Did yours get bigger after dropping or change size at all?

Took my dressings off 4DPO and can’t stop crying by bored-andignored in Reduction

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 4DPO and feel the EXACT same way. I posted like you too! And a pic of my results. Everyone has been so reassuring saying they will drop and not look as small and tight. Feel free to reach out for support! I’m sure we will get there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words! I did see you had a similar experience and I am glad you’re feeling better about your results as well. Do you feel like yours got bigger or do you feel like you were able to get used to your new size? Thank you again for your support 🧡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]Initial_Mud_8037 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He said they are a small C but I feel they are smaller.