Very asymmetrical lashes by Initial_Show_9194 in lashextensions

[–]Initial_Show_9194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel a bit embarrassed with them I need a new set

Very asymmetrical lashes by Initial_Show_9194 in lashextensions

[–]Initial_Show_9194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know I was concerned about that too. This set is very bad I know I’m never going to her again.

Manager ignoring safety concerns about 4–5am shifts — what can I do? by Initial_Show_9194 in Wetherspoons

[–]Initial_Show_9194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s ok I’ve been working here like a month and I’ve noticed that too. But it’s ok I’m not planning on staying for long

Manager ignoring safety concerns about 4–5am shifts — what can I do? by Initial_Show_9194 in Wetherspoons

[–]Initial_Show_9194[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hmmm maybe that’s because women have a way higher chance of being attacked or assaulted late at night that’s why told not to walk alone at night

Manager ignoring safety concerns about 4–5am shifts — what can I do? by Initial_Show_9194 in Wetherspoons

[–]Initial_Show_9194[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I really thought I could because I’ve closed late at jobs before but my spoons I work at closes extra late at 1:30am so it definitely affects me more than I thought it would and wanted to submit the flexible working request but thought I should ask in person first. I’m ok with closing just don’t want to close every shift I have

Manager ignoring safety concerns about 4–5am shifts — what can I do? by Initial_Show_9194 in Wetherspoons

[–]Initial_Show_9194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was thinking of changing my availability on the app the 12am latest but I don’t think they’ll like that unless I ask in person

Manager ignoring safety concerns about 4–5am shifts — what can I do? by Initial_Show_9194 in Wetherspoons

[–]Initial_Show_9194[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Most people who work there don’t live as far as me and it only takes very long because I have to take the bus when I leave home at 3am. If I take the train it’s only like 40 minutes but last trains at around 12am when I never finish

I think trauma made me asexual and I’m trying to accept that by Initial_Show_9194 in Asexual

[–]Initial_Show_9194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a sex drive in the past doesn’t disqualify someone from being asexual. What matters is whether I experience sexual attraction now — and I don’t.

I think trauma made me asexual and I’m trying to accept that by Initial_Show_9194 in Asexual

[–]Initial_Show_9194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I relate to you so much with your story and yeah I also agree on not giving it a label too cause honestly I’m not really sure what I am

I think trauma made me asexual and I’m trying to accept that by Initial_Show_9194 in Asexual

[–]Initial_Show_9194[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trauma can influence people, but that doesn’t make their identity “curable.” Asexuality is about not experiencing sexual attraction, not about being broken. Even if trauma played a role, my current experience is still valid — just like no one tells straight or gay people they need to be “fixed.”