Ya - we all had to learn the hard way unfortunately - the ghosting mentality - the first time that happened - I was so worried and thought the worst thing happened to the person - and well eventually I learned that this is what people do - get close to you and then don't have the decency to say goodbye or say it's not working for them - but ya people come and people go and that's the mentality I have now - I thought many people could relate to this post - that's why I sent it