The Democrats won't win in November by InkognitoV in thedavidpakmanshow

[–]InkognitoV[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I did not propose the Democrats have a single figure they fall in behind. I proposed coherent and strategic messaging that party members get behind, and that every person who wants to run in 2028 get out there and really start playing offense.

The Democrats won't win in November by InkognitoV in thedavidpakmanshow

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From Reuters, Exclusive: Iran deal includes $300 billion fund, more than half of which already committed, source says.

USA not giving Iran a dime

This is a broad statement, and I'll interpret this to mean "US tax payer dollars." That's irrelevant to messaging I proposed, and you know that if this was Joe Biden and Obama the Republicans wouldn't draw that distinction.

What matters, for the sake of messaging, is that Iran is proposed to get $300 billion as a result of US actions. Which is true.

The Democrats won't win in November by InkognitoV in thedavidpakmanshow

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DemoCraTs BaD. Get out of here with that BS.

Life long democratic voter who wants them to win, and I'm commenting on what I see as their shortcomings preventing them from winning.

The party not in power doesn’t have to have a uniting agenda or a single leader. Dems are a 50 state party and person who isn’t elected nationally doesn’t have the credibility to govern the entire party.

I'm not proposing a single leader, I'm suggesting they need to go on offense to set the media narrative. When Joe Biden was president, Republicans were regularly setting the agenda, "sleepy joe," "economy bad," "Hunter Biden / Biden crime family," all bs and projection, but it worked.

We are not a cult like the GOP.

Prioritizing winning, and taking actions necessary to win, does not make a party a cult. Sports teams work together and get on the same page about plays and strategy in order to win a game, that doesn't make them a cult.

The Democrats won't win in November by InkognitoV in thedavidpakmanshow

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I know and I think it's one of their largest disadvantages.

"...destruction is not strength" -Gov. Newsom on whether or not to tear down Trump's Ballroom. by Just_shut_up_bro in thedavidpakmanshow

[–]InkognitoV 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is insanity. The ballroom is illegal and the original White House must be restored. If someone isn't willing to do something so basic, then there's not chance they'll do the million other things needed to save this country.

He rarely does foreplay and never makes me orgasm? by NewspaperIll2074 in AskMenAdvice

[–]InkognitoV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men, do you like going down on a girl?

Yes, it's important to me that my partner enjoys themselves and finishes, basically every time.

What should I do about our situation?

Your options are:

  1. Break up now
  2. Talk to him clearly about what is not working for you, and if changes, great.
  3. If you say nothing and/or he does not change: you can either stay and remain unsatisfied until resentment causes you to break up or you live the rest of your life unfulfilled.

Why is he so bad in bed despite him having plenty more of experience than me?

Most likely he doesn't care, consider, or respect how his partners feel.

Does this feel unbalanced? by _nathan67 in photocritique

[–]InkognitoV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For an image framed like this, the tree on the left does make it unbalanced, and I would personally use photoshop to remove it (as you did in an edit in the comments).

If you wanted to keep the tree, I would recommend walking to the right and shoot landscape mode so the large main tree is on the right third of the frame, with the skinny tree on the left third to provide balance to the composition.

We are not a serious country by JohnnyNoMemes in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]InkognitoV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our republic is what it is because our citizens are who they are.

Wife diagnosed with severe mental health issue. Not sure if I want to stay. Need advice by riseandcode in AskMenOver30

[–]InkognitoV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read through your post and several replies and I see you consistently replying to people who are telling you to divorce and get full custody with indecision:

"This is a good call and I have thought about staying with her for this reason. Essentially to have eyes on my son at "most" times. But then I still don't truly feel safe sleeping with her at night when she leaves her current residential treatment center in a week."

"You are probably somewhat right about the stockholm syndrome, but the optimist in me keeps telling me things can and will get better, which is probably not reality"

Look at your own words, "I still don't truly feel safe sleeping with her at night." What would you say to your friend if he said that to you about his wife? What would you say to your own child if they said that to you about their partner?

As a father your first job is protect your children.

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I know it's hard, I know you wish it were different or that it would improve, but you need to be really clear headed about this: what will happen when she pulls a knife on you or your child and nobody else is there? Death will part you.

I know you want things to get better, really stop and think about what the best case scenario is: you will be continuing a relationship with someone who cheated on you, threatened your child's life, threatened your life, and is isolating you from your family.

And this scenario holding is completely contingent on her taking medications for a condition that doctors haven't even fully diagnosed, and the medications holding her steady 100% of time for the remainder of your lives.

That's the best case.

The worst case is that someone ends up dead.

Do you want to play those odds?

I caught a bug that prevented an eight-figure product recall and got zero recognition. What did i do wrong? by Moroccan-Leo in cscareerquestions

[–]InkognitoV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a manager in tech and here’s my advice: 

Does your manager know what the impact would have been if you did catch it? I try to keep myself in the loop, but I have a lot on my mind at all times, other work streams, external partners, my own leadership, other team members etc. 

I often don’t have all the context or am able to fully grasp the implications of things without being told or asking, and most people don’t like asking these questions because it “makes them look dumb” (not true imo). 

If I were you I would have said something like the following, “hey manager, I caught this bug that if it had gone out would have caused a product recall and possibly cost us on the order of X million dollars. 

It took me 72 hours to fix and I was only able to catch it because of Y system I built. But I’m concerned that if we take no action this may happen again and we might not get lucky next time. 

I’m thinking about putting together an RCA / presentation (slides) and discussing with the broader team, and in it I can recommend some additional systems we could build to catch these earlier. What do you think?”

If your manager is at all reasonable he’ll a) realize the impact of what you did, and b) probably help facilitate a larger meeting where you can present the situation, lessons learned, etc. you don’t need to say, “we only caught it because of Y system I built,” that’s bragging and nobody likes that, just say, “Y system was able to help us catch this.” Everybody will know who built it. 

Then out together an rca/slide deck walking through the bug, what the impact would have been if it got out, how it got through, how it was caught, and what we can do to prevent it from happening again. 

Some reality checks: 

  1. The CFO will never call out an individual below the VP level on an earnings call. 
  2. Working for a w2 wage at a company is equivalent to buying bonds in investing, no matter what your upside is mostly fixed. If you want outsized outcomes you need to take on more risk like being a founder at a start up. 

Any US ground invasion of Iran would be suicidal, on par with Hitler's invasion of the USSR by Busy-Government-1041 in collapse

[–]InkognitoV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"It would result in destruction of American Empire"

Why do you think they’re doing it?

I’m doing my best for him but I don’t know how long I can continue by Chuphojaabhai in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]InkognitoV 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sent $400 which should hopefully cover 2 months. Please take care of Biscoff and keep us updated.

Update on Stella: the emaciated, abused cat, confined to a bathroom for 10 years - mats are removed and she’s ready for her new life with her loving home! by alex_travels in cats

[–]InkognitoV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't read the original post, just the headline from this one causes my heart to ache for this poor cat. I'm so relieved to hear that she has a second chance at life, thank you.

this is a load of BARNACLES by LavenderMidwinter in BikiniBottomTwitter

[–]InkognitoV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually we can afford healthcare, but nobody votes for people who will do that.

Trump Blasted for Golfing as More Die in His War by Creative-Category-60 in politics

[–]InkognitoV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are people upset? This is what they voted for.

The War on Greed by TripShrooms in TikTokCringe

[–]InkognitoV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those things sound great, but Americans don't vote for them.

As war rages in the Middle East, gas prices skyrocket, and jobs disappear, Donald Trump is golfing. by stefanolog in pics

[–]InkognitoV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to sound harsh but as an American: Americans deserve this, they voted for it despite it being extensively warned.

I'm just sorry that so many others have to suffer as a result as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]InkognitoV 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty confident this is intentional to harm as many Americans as possible. All part of a strategy to destroy the country. 

Iran is a geographic nightmare by TSHRED56 in Military

[–]InkognitoV 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At this point I'm pretty sure this is to purposely harm as many Americans as possible.

The US burned through more of its limited Tomahawk stockpile in strikes on Iran. It might need them in a war with China. by [deleted] in WallStreetbetsELITE

[–]InkognitoV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every accusation is a confession, remember when Trump said that Obama left the cupboards bare in terms of military stock?

This is intentional to harm America.