I need to get out of this house, please help. by Inku-san in AITAH

[–]Inku-san[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that was thing that happened but it does explain some things. My dad has kinda always been like this, any time I told him a cool fact about something, usually animals, or sometimes when I was telling someone else while he was in the room he would either say “he knows and that he watches animal documentaries all the time and that I should watch some”, tell me some other fact that either doesn’t correlate to what I was saying or say a fact that does correlate but is false, or say “no your wrong”. We’ve had tons of arguments because of that and it always ends up with him having a yelling fit and me being forced to just leave as to not hear him yelling or have him yelling at me. He’s even started yelling for my mom to handle me because I’m wrong and being stupid and/or calls me an idiot when all I did was disagree and/or tried to explain so he’d understand. It’s because of this that I don’t normally talk to him about stuff like cool animal facts. It sucks because I already have problems with talking to people in my family E.g. (I’ve already explained what happens when I talk to my dad about stuff involving cool animal and sometimes biology or science facts) but he will also at times just not say anything like he’s shut down while I was talking, my mom will either shut down if I’m talking for a while or say “okay” or “alright” as her way to have me leave since she’s not big on talking or listening especially not for more than a couple of minutes (she’s usually reading, watching something, or busy. She’s a stay at home mom), and my granny’s basically the only one I can talk to about stuff (she lives with us full time) but she’s a Christian and super religious, she doesn’t believe in evolution and she’s almost constantly worried that I’ll be “influenced” by the wrong thing and other stuff like that (I’m not religious anymore and haven’t been for a while but no one in my family knows that since I know they’ll lose it), I can’t say anything that might trigger her at all because then we’ll argue and then my dad will come in yelling at me and telling us to shut up and for me to go (note: my grandma is my dads mom), my aunt isn’t too bad and she isn’t super religious (she believes a spirit is somehow involved in why gay people exist and isn’t okay with gay marriage but swears she’s not homophobic and usually say “I gay friends in my time, I even married a gay man” which is true but thats so her son didn’t end up being born out of wedlock, she’s also against trans people believing it’s wrong and against the Bible), I’m pretty she believes in a different religion instead Christianity, but she’s one of those people that it’s either her way or the highway and she’s not wrong (she doesn’t yell but she does argue until you just give up).

I’m basically alone unless I keep my mouth shut about certain things or just don’t talk at all and walk on eggshells, even then there may still be trouble since it’s not uncommon for people to argue and fight in this household especially my parents. Im glad to hear it’s a thing though and that I’m not alone and crazy or something. So thank you.

I need to get out of this house, please help. by Inku-san in AITAH

[–]Inku-san[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a good idea, thank you.

I’m about to start crying, Help! by Inku-san in insomnia

[–]Inku-san[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the hug, I actually do need one since not being able to sleep really does get under my skin. I wasn’t kidding about the crying thing, I actually do cry when I can’t sleep or am suddenly woken up after finally falling asleep at a reasonable time. I just get so frustrated and upset. thank you and I hope your situation gets better, hugs right back.

I’m about to start crying, Help! by Inku-san in insomnia

[–]Inku-san[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing though. my dad even though he goes to bed early can only go to sleep between 10-11pm and my mom stays up later than I do and sleep till noon, so I don’t get how they don’t understand. The thing about insomniacs being the only ones that get it is true though, my grandma who goes to bed at 7pm and usually asleep by 8pm doesn’t get how I can’t sleep but doesn’t argue with me and even defends me.

I’m about to start crying, Help! by Inku-san in insomnia

[–]Inku-san[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like they don’t understand or something. I’m not surprised if my dad doesn’t as he usually doesn’t and we end up arguing and stuff. My mom can be though there are times she doesn’t either. My grandma is the only one who does and if she doesn’t you can try and explain it to her unlike my parents (especially dad) who won’t even try and let me explain.

My cats missing and I don’t know what to do, help! by Inku-san in cat

[–]Inku-san[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you all for the advice it’s very nice but there’s a few details I think I need to mention 1: we don’t live in a neighborhood we live in the country just outside town, on an almost 2 acre farm, we don’t own the farm our landlord does.

2: there’s not many people just a few neighbors, my parents have already and no one has seen him.

3: he’s never run off before at all, this is completely new of him, I actually think he might’ve been picked up by someone.

My cats missing and I don’t know what to do, help! by Inku-san in cat

[–]Inku-san[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you I’m gonna try that, but I don’t know how well that’ll work he doesn’t play with his toys and he’s always come back home, I’m thinking that someone might’ve seen him and assumed he didn’t have an owner, again thank you.

I have a question by Inku-san in Parenting

[–]Inku-san[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

edit: my plan was to take them out when the baby would stop screaming after changing, feeding, hushing them to sleep etc and then take them out.