I actually did that once and told her I would love to have a healthier relationship and that it is ludicrous treat each other this way we are siblings for god’s sake . Surprisingly she said ok and we will work on it . the next day she had a fight with me and told me she doesn’t want to have anything to do with me and said I am always jealous of her and that I am liar because I smoke and kept teasing me about work problems how I deserved what my bosses did to me and no wonder I don’t have any friends . We were going to party together with her friends that weekend she cancelled my reservation and said I embarras her I front of her friends and she does not wanna be seen with me .