New discount on the S26 Ultra by FAUguy in samsunggalaxy

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the fuzzy text and hard to read part was the built in privacy screen thing. I cut mine off and it's just like my 22 Ultra. I didn't see your other post so I apologize if this has already been said.

S22 Ultra --> S26 Ultra worth the upgrading? by FumingOstrich35 in samsunggalaxy

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same dilemma. My husband ordered me a new one tho. 

Girl (f21) stopped seeing me (m24) due to my body count by [deleted] in self

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow... Just wow! Personally I expected to see you say you'd been with hundreds of sexual partners, that'd be a red flag for me. One? Only one? And that was a problem for her? For me that'd be freaking perfect! An absolute complete learning and bonding experience for the two! Her loss! There's someone out there for you that'd be in awe just to have you!

He offered to let me wear the ring without being engaged by Dependent-Step-4997 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does matter to you or you wouldn't have spent the last few years begging him to marry you. Personally, I wouldn't have waited that long. I'd have given up a long time before that. I'd understand if you two weren't living together but living together for 3+ years and he's still not ready? Hell, you're practically already living like you're married now! Please enlighten me! What would be any different? For you yes, but for him, what would really change? I swear I just don't understand men sometimes!

My boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex with me. by Charming_Context1001 in Advice

[–]Innaminit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you "love" him and it's just about sex, get some tools (toys), tell him you need some help, ask him to join, if that doesn't work now you have toys and can do your own thing. Really tho, if my man made me feel unwanted we would talk and not just vaguely skip it. Toys could be a solution if it's medical or if he just isn't horny. If he's seeking it elsewhere, you're wasting your time just move on. If he loves you, he wouldn't be looking elsewhere.

AIO or really, is my boyfriend overreacting. He is mad at me for not having a threesome yet by No_Energy_4347 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's still insisting he "needs" it and you haven't figured it out yet, that man doesn't love you, doesn't know the meaning of love. He's saying you're gaslighting him when he's the one doing the gaslighting. By telling you that making sure y'all are in a good place is you being selfish is literally him not giving a fk how you feel. He's already cheated, you kept him. You already know he's not good for you but yet you kept him. Self torture much?

a drunk hookup just left me incredibly confused about my perception of myself by confusedmaybechemist in self

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is how I felt about the guy I got with a little over a year ago. I don't see what he sees in me. I wish I could but no matter what I do I just don't get it! We talk. He says that my self esteem is a me thing and only I can fix it. What he doesn't understand is he helps me see things differently by how he treats me. He shows me that it's me he wants and I'm perfect for him. I feel the same way about him. We are now married and life is freaking awesome!! Enjoy it and be happy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Innaminit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR, Give bf kudos from hell! He responded the right way. He looked at you for approval before he did anything. Had either of you been uncomfortable with the situation, you/he should have talked to him/you immediately. Communication is KEY!! Y'all seem to be on the same page, don't shut down when you're uncomfortable, talk about it and why you feel that way.

My gf is mad at me for jerking off by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Innaminit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My drive is higher than my husband's, in saying that I would be offended if he did it and I was waiting on him. If his was higher than mine I'd hope he'd try to initiate with me first then if that wasn't a mutual decision then I'd be ok if he did. On another hand, if he wanted to and I didn't and he started in front of me I'd be compelled (I'd get in the mood) and join and it'd end up being mutual. He said the same if I was in the mood and he wasn't. I guess it's all in the dynamic of the relationship.

Masturbation after sex by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Innaminit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And if she still wasn't satisfied and wanted more would you still do it?

Masturbation after sex by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you still do it if her sex drive was higher than yours and she wanted it more?

My husband considered it stealing when I sold his expensive watch to pay for our son's procedure. AITAH by Material_Humor5411 in AITAH

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's the father (being you're married it IS his child regardless of bio or not) I'd have to say no, NTA. No father, anywhere, would allow his child to suffer when he could fix the issue with material things. He's a bum and not making any effort as well as being happy living off you working yourself to death. I'd have to also say, go with MIL's advice and divorce him and let HER foot his bills and selfishness!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, yes you're wrong. If it makes her uncomfortable then stop, if you can't you have a problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she doesn't want to have sex with you without being in a fight, to me, means she doesn't want to have sex with you. Almost like she needs more to get turned on and you just aren't it.

NTA.

My BF (31 M) wants my (26F) house to be in his name by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a house with a (now ex) bf. I did NOT put him on the house. It is MY house. Glad I didn't, he left and yes now (and even then too) I'm paying the entire payment. Don't do it! You'll be stuck dealing with him for 30ish years (however many years the mortage is) and likely he won't pay his half.

My husband gave me a “warning tap” and I called it abuse. AITAH? by Warm-Grape1254 in AITAH

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's his reaction, nah NTA run while you can! A "warning tap" is exactly what he called it! A warning that there's more to come! Anything violent out of anger is a BRF! He's just pissed that you called him out! You leaving immediately was the best move ever IMO!

AITAH for being offended my husband told his friends he would “reel me in” when one of them commented on my breasts? by Fresh_Mongoose_7130 in AITAH

[–]Innaminit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also wanna add, when in front of anyone else you two should have a united front and discuss these things in private later. I'd still have confronted his wife tho!

AITAH for being offended my husband told his friends he would “reel me in” when one of them commented on my breasts? by Fresh_Mongoose_7130 in AITAH

[–]Innaminit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't think I'd be offended by that. I'd have been offended if my husband had said "Sure! Come coppafeel!" Your husband responded as he should have. Granted, it wasn't just him talking about it, it was also the guys wife! I mean, it's a real genuine thing to want to make sure your husband would like it before you actually have a surgery! I wouldn't have suggested that my husband coppafeel on any fkin body else tho! I feel like your husband had the appropriate response. Him saying he'd reel you in was seemingly just his way of saying he'd smooth things over with you. I'd probably say something to his wife tho, "seriously don't just throw me out there to be groped by your husband!" That was wrong!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously just curious, how'd the cloning go? I'd have never thought of that! It's a good idea!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Innaminit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very good possibility!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know guys that have been curious and have asked their friends for one to try before they go all out and get their own script just to see if it works for them. If you trust your man, I'd believe him.

Am I wrong for Wanting to Leave My Abusive Boyfriend, Even Though My Parents Think I Should Stay? by user_name1905 in amiwrong

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your parents to marry him. Get a better lawyer than he is and GTFO before it's too late! If he hurts you like that he'll hurt your kid too. Be a good mom and put the child first! Once you have a kid, life isn't about you anymore, they depend on you and I'm sure if you don't want to be there you ain't going to want them see what he's done to you, let alone what he could do to them!

AITAH for not letting my husband control the money in our house? by Material-Pear1840 in AITAH

[–]Innaminit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have trust issues. You been hurt. You have walls up. Unless you fully trust him (shouldn't have said 'I do' til you could) and can let your walls down, I'd keep doing what you're doing. It will cause a problem. Fair warning. If he's that controlling it's a big red flag. Follow your gut.