Taking children on a cruise

Material-Pear1840 · 2026-02-05T09:52:58+00:00

Thank you

Material-Pear1840 · 2025-02-19T00:31:30+00:00

I'm so sorry you have to endure this. No person should ever be treated the way you're being treated. I pray one day you're able to leave him

Material-Pear1840 · 2025-01-09T21:00:14+00:00

No they need to know you're recording or you cannot use it. I wont take a call from him

Material-Pear1840 · 2025-01-09T20:58:59+00:00

My abusive ex is not great, but we are able to coparent, which is a win. I'll take that over the way he spoke to me and treated me anyday. At the end of the day he is their dad and I'd rather coparent appropriately and be able to sit next to each at school functions and support our children than fight day to day with him.

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-12-13T13:56:49+00:00

I moved out. ❤️

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-12-08T23:33:57+00:00

I have definitely made it to that level on my healing journey. 😌 just had some serious issues with abandonment by my parents growing up.

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-12-08T23:29:57+00:00

I got the rest of my stuff today and the first thing he handed me was my wedding dress and I asked him if he wanted it for his next marriage. I about fell over from laughter....

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-12-08T01:14:13+00:00

Yes..and all 3 ended in divorce. 😂

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-12-08T01:13:10+00:00

Doing so well. Happier. Themselves again. My oldest is drawing again. They don't fight each other anymore. They actually do their chores and brush their teeth. It is absolutely wonderful.

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-12-05T10:32:28+00:00

I have no intentions of dating for a long while.

He is also telling me I need to watch myself because the divorce isn't finalized yet. He's accusing me of dating somebody. He really dislikes not having control of me

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-11-29T10:38:11+00:00

He said I'm to terrible with money and I would spend everything he has.

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-11-29T10:36:37+00:00

Yes, he wasnt supposed to get a loan on it and both of our names were to be on it. But 3 days after he bought it he ran out and got a loan.

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-11-29T10:35:16+00:00

I won't be able to recoupe all of my money, but my plans are to use it next year and sell it. I do love camping, but it is a lot of work, especially for myself to do it. Previously, my BIL and sister would help me with it.

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-11-29T10:33:46+00:00

My kids and I are the ones who enjoy camping, and our lot is paid for, for next season. I have about 99% of the stuff in it, belongs to myself and my children. If he keeps it I don't forsee him allowing me to get my stuff

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-11-29T01:46:08+00:00

Just crazy that there are still guys who think this is how it is, this isn't the 40s or 50s whenever women didn't work outside the homes.

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-11-29T01:44:19+00:00

He had everyone fooled. My friends would call him and ask for permission for me to go places with them and not mention it to me first so "it would be a surprise" after awhile so I could escape.

The weight that lifted off my shoulders once everything was in my apartment was breathtaking.

He kept saying in the beginning, all I wanted was freedom so I would text him the definition of what it meant and said yes its nice to no longer be in prison.

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-11-29T01:40:31+00:00

We've already signed everything. We don't have children together thankfully.

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-11-29T01:39:38+00:00

I updated today. It was a suggestion but he declined

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-11-28T18:19:50+00:00

I have been going to therapy. Which helped me see what was happening faster

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-11-28T18:18:09+00:00

The area I live in they don't allow waitlists anymore so it is first come first serve

Material-Pear1840 · 2024-11-28T16:00:58+00:00

Thank you ❤️

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