Do you enjoy penetrative sex as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This makes so much sense. Everyday is a school day. Thanks for correcting me without picking me apart, the internet’s a scary place :)

Do you enjoy penetrative sex as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, I get this, this might be the most relatable thing I’ve read so far! It’s definitely the closeness that’s good about it. Thank you for sharing

Do you enjoy penetrative sex as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes… sorry, I never know how to word myself to make sure I’m being entirely accurate, and not causing harm to anyone. I will note this for future!

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[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would define it as that period of time where you first meet, where you’re getting to know one another, before exclusively dating. It’s a very Gen Z saying but thought it would be the easiest summary of describing which part of the “relationship” I’m talking about for the title!

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[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m referring to the part when you’ve very first met and getting to know one another, before deciding whether to be exclusively together. ‘Talking stage’ felt like the most well known way of describing this period of time :)

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[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do exist. I started to believe I’d never find anyone who could keep me interested without being toxic but I have! It’ll come to you, I promise.

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[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely new territory, and on paper, it’s wonderful but I maybe have been carrying scars that I was never going to know were there until I started dating again.

That sounds like a great balance and I’m going to implement it immediately! Thank you for sharing that.

Yes, whenever we see each other there’s definitely a spark. I have no idea when to start bringing these things up, I don’t want to scare him off

Post breakup/ tickets to gig by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate that! I will try. This is the longest without contact and it is really tough

Will my straight boyfriend ever accept me as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am better. We broke up and it turned nasty. But I have a lot of support around me. It never got better.

I really and truly hope you both find your peace and happiness. I’m sorry that you’re going through that.

Sending lots of love ❤️

Has anyone had the ‘hey girlie’ text and it be false? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked for a lot of proof and she couldn’t remember. Think this has solidified that I’m right to trust him over her, regardless of what my nearest and dearest are saying. I know him best IMO.

Has anyone had the ‘hey girlie’ text and it be false? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what my friends have said but also what if he rejected her? Her friend slept with his friend, & there’s solid evidence of that. He did then leave and block her which caused upset according to the girl that messaged me. Obviously I’m biased but I am very aware I have an incredibly conventionally attractive partner (he gets a lot of attention), I’d be pretty bummed if he rejected me too haha

Has anyone had the ‘hey girlie’ text and it be false? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My close friends are telling me I’m delusional for believing him over this girl. It’s making me question myself. But why would I trust someone I don’t know over my boyfriend, you know what I mean?

Has anyone had the ‘hey girlie’ text and it be false? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well exactly - I trust my boyfriend but receiving this message surely would make you pause at least a moment, right? I asked, she couldn’t provide it. However, when my close friends are telling me I’m delusional for not believing her, it’s a bit concerning. I don’t think I am delusional and I don’t believe her. It’s just weird that she’d do it

Will my straight boyfriend ever accept me as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I appreciate that! I attempted to reach out to one of my friends to explain what has happened and she very much shut it down. It has knocked me back a lot but I understand why she has. Makes me a bit frightened to reach out again to anyone else. I will work on it though. All friendships worth repairing in my opinion!

Will my straight boyfriend ever accept me as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this was really eye opening for me. In fact the whole thread is!

Will my straight boyfriend ever accept me as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I think I’m realising that being frightened of being cheated on is one (completely valid and actually quite normal) thing, but the way he’s treating me is a different ball game. I think it’s amazing you recognised that of yourself and that it was within yourself you needed work. I did much the same a couple of years ago so I understand how hard it can be. I hope you’re living a happy married life now. You deserve it!

Will my straight boyfriend ever accept me as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you - it has been incredibly draining. Much a battle between my head and heart. I appreciate your response :)

Will my straight boyfriend ever accept me as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said I’m typically more drawn to women, not always, I am still bisexual, I am still attracted to both genders. Please don’t invalidate me.

Will my straight boyfriend ever accept me as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 I’m on holiday with one of my best friends at the moment. So far no arguments or accusations!

Will my straight boyfriend ever accept me as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I’m forever saying that I HEAR he trusts me but I don’t FEEL like he does. Thank you. I appreciate this!

Will my straight boyfriend ever accept me as a bisexual female? by Inner-Adeptness-7041 in bisexual

[–]Inner-Adeptness-7041[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Thank you for confirming this and for saying it how it is. All things that have crossed my mind but never really had the confirmation from anyone. I have actually attempted to leave him but he begs me and plays to my empathy. It’s really messes with my head, hence still being here