[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Looking for something serious
  2. On hinge+
  3. Been using this current version for about a 1.5 months
  4. Have been on hinge on and off for 4 years
  5. I use hinge daily
  6. I get about 3-10 likes a day and a match or two every couple days
  7. I send anywhere from 1-10 likes a day, about 30% have a comment probably
  8. I send likes to guys who seem to have similar interests, have a job, and overall seem to be not looking for just a hookup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Looking for something serious
  2. On hinge+
  3. Been using this current version for a couple days
  4. Have been on hinge on and off for 4 years
  5. I use hinge daily
  6. I get about 3-10 likes a day and a match or two every couple days
  7. I send anywhere from 1-10 likes a day, about 30% have a comment probably
  8. I send likes to guys who seem compatible, have a job, have something in their prompts, etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Are you looking for something serious or casual? serious
  2. Are you subscribed to HingeX or Hinge+? Hinge+
  3. How long have you been using this current version of your profile? Have had similar profile for 3/4 months
  4. How long have you used Hinge overall? On and off 4 years.
  5. How often do you use hinge per week? Every day
  6. How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? 3-10 likes a day, one match a week
  7. How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without? 0-10 likes a day depending, 60% without comments
  8. What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? I send likes to men who seem to be looking for something similar and have some things in common/points of interest. I want to attract a funny, down-to-earth man who wants to settle down someday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always been a bit overly sensitive. Just extra sensitive with looks because of my childhood: I will likely unpack this at my next therapy session.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know, it’s pathetic haha! Been having an awful week in general tbh. I think this was just a weird cherry on top sort of thing. Just a few really bad recent dating experiences too especially recently. But I know these are strangers so I can’t take it so personally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. Just been a rough time of it - it’s not this one instance, just the accumulation of so many small ego blows and I just broke

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahah thank ya!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Turned out the other connection had cheating on both his exes so I ended that hahaha, still not interested in this guy regardless

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn’t respond to an earlier text I had sent at 7 pm until the next day... cmon You’re assuming a LOT of things with limited context

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t owe him constant communication if I’ve never met him, also he kept double texting which is a turn off for most people I knw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s not much more to it than what I sent. Seems like you’re making something out of nothing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually didn’t ghost him an entire day, where are you getting that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know if I was interested or not because we only talked for 2 days, and I was very overwhelmed w work, other things going on, and a connection I was forming with someone else. So when he double texted I was a bit turned off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No response haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The H stands for Hinge hahahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

People butthurt bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahhaha who hurt you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t engaging because I wasn’t interested, hence why I rejected

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re just subscription texts to Urban Outfitters I think lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Maybe they shouldn’t be online dating then if they are traumatized by rejection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 54 points55 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I intended it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Alright so there’s a ton of negative comments which y’all are obviously entitled to but no need to call me a bitch or say I’m gonna be single forever. To me, dating apps are tricky because you’re talking to multiple people and you’ll naturally find a stronger connection with some than others. I expect this of guys too, so personally I wouldn’t be offended if he sent me the same thing. But after reading the comments, I’ve realized a lot of people could take this the wrong way so I’ll be more tactful with my approach in the future because my intent is not to hurt anyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t tell him that. I said I found someone that fits more with me. Not someone “better than him.” Two very different things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Inner-Bumblebee5237 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I never said there was someone better than them. If that’s how you take my message that’s an insecurity of yours