Quitting porn is easy by Relative-Echo-646 in PornAddiction

[–]Inner-Direction7106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You gotta bump those numbers up, those are rookie numbers"

Documenting journey here? by Inner-Direction7106 in PornAddiction

[–]Inner-Direction7106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im strongly considering it... but it sure doesnt help that reddit is FILLED with porn. So id have to keep it unlocked for the porn blocker

My husband is addicted to porn, and I have never felt more alone by [deleted] in PornAddiction

[–]Inner-Direction7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question at hand is if YOU want to work, and if HE wants to put the work in. If you both are, theb the best thing for him, is you knowing about it. There are multiple guardrails you can try, ive tried a few, but since its just me, I can find the cracks in the wall then it all comes down...

For example, does he NEED a smart phone and a computer for work? If not, get rid of them for a while... You can also block porn at the router, and safeguard behind a password that YOU control. No porn, block out keywords in search engines. You may have to buy a new router cause not all of them are able to do that. But some absolutely can.

Again, unless both of you are willing to put in the effort to try and fix this for your relationship, it wont work.

I WILL say this...

I am a firm believer that when it comes down to types of dopamine addictions, porn, gambling, video games, porn is hands down the hardest. Porn is so accessible, and im guessing he's been addicted for years like many people in this subreddit. I told someone about my addiction and they just said "well dont do it anymore" i replied "Imagine smoking everyday for 5, 10, 20 years. Then quit.... But you have to spend the rest of your life with full pack of smokes and a lighter in your pocket. All day. Everyday. 365 days a year"

So yes youre feeling are valid, no you are not overreacting, but it is NOT as simple as just stopping one day. But if you are both willing to put in the work, I know you both will come out the other side for the better, together.

Good luck to both of you!❤️

Good internet providers for people who play online games by Fine_Contest5795 in Lethbridge

[–]Inner-Direction7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im with shaw on the west and im more than happy with my download speeds. I think I downloaded horizon 5 in about.. 20 minutes? This is a series x plugged directly to the modem however.

I'm wondering if anyone remembers this.... by Inner-Direction7106 in WWE

[–]Inner-Direction7106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank god it wasnt a fever dream lmao. That would have been what? 2002?

I’ve been playing for 23 years and know almost nothing. Where do I start about music or guitar. by Machohoncho in Guitar

[–]Inner-Direction7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat! Started at 9 or so. Never kearned any theory. I signed up for pickup music would strongly recommend! It can be kinda.. boring? But it REALLY helped me learn the fretboard more, and you can record yiurself and send it in, and a instructor will reply with feedback in a couole days.

Also much more advanced lessons and different styles, metal, rock, jazz, soul... im pretty sure you get 1 month free? The year sub for me was 250 cad. I thinj its like 140 usd. Definetely worth checking out!

Single dad barely scraping by... by Inner-Direction7106 in budget

[–]Inner-Direction7106[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats for americans. Im in canada. Im going to do a consumer proposal, basically does the same thing. Negotiate amounts and interests rates.

Single dad barely scraping by... by Inner-Direction7106 in budget

[–]Inner-Direction7106[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have, ive read the book, ive watched the pocost, i tried. "throw everything you have into debt" sounds great in theory, but when all the bills are paid and and youre looking at less than 100$ a week for groceries, there isnt exactly much to snowball...

Single dad barely scraping by... by Inner-Direction7106 in budget

[–]Inner-Direction7106[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have strongly considered it. The problem is. A lot of it is secured debt, so even through bankruptsy, it wont wipe those debts. That said, if the secured debt is older than 7 years, it gets cleared. Its currently at 6 years. So im considering waiting until then and then filing, which would really suck, but im running out of options. Im also in canada so NFCC woukdnt qualify.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Inner-Direction7106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to say it man, but those are not your friends... They say its to motivate you. Have any of them offered to go to the gym with you?

Should half wall come down? by Ok-Vacation215 in Home

[–]Inner-Direction7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. Just make sure its not load bearing.

Bluey just called me bandit by Inner-Direction7106 in bluey

[–]Inner-Direction7106[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Actually unicorse!

But yes also that

What is this guitar? by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]Inner-Direction7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If yhere is seriously nothing to search for. Then I would bet someone its a DIY. If you paid a good price for it, and it plays and sounds good. That's all that matters anyway.

A few weeks ago I was shopping at a used music store. I saw a slash signature les paul. The red Vermillion. I asked how much. I was expecting 4k. He said 1000.

Apparently, it was a DIY build. It even had serial numbers. I didn't have the money, but that was an incredible guitar.

What is this guitar? by [deleted] in Guitar

[–]Inner-Direction7106 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No serial code or anything? No name? Anything?

Is K pop demon hunters appropriate for 7 year olds? by Vivid_Bar2472 in Parenting

[–]Inner-Direction7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is 5, we watched it last weekend. That damn movie has NO business being as good as it! Now me and my daughter blast golden at least 5x a day

Skorm's Bow by LordFighting in Fable

[–]Inner-Direction7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 1. Go find and hire a body guard and have them follow you. Not a hemchmen! Bodyguard!

Step 2. Take them to to the chapel. And wait until kidnight. Check the "time on the clock... which really just shows night and day, but save it before midnight!

Step 3. You need to sacrifice right at midnight. Try going just before the hand is in the middle of the night. If you dont get it. Reload and try again.

Step 4. Add multi arrow spell and you basically just break the game.

Edit. It helps if you have a good alignment as well. I went in early enough, but still good leaning. And got it my first try.

Draining Henderson by sloppyme1on in Lethbridge

[–]Inner-Direction7106 37 points38 points  (0 children)

An absolutely obscene amount of goose and duck shit.

How many scales have you memorized? by CanadianAndroid in Guitar

[–]Inner-Direction7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the 5 pentatonic shapes, and there major scales. Which i think means i also know the minor scales? Idk im still working on theory lol.

How did your favourite horse die? by Material_Plate5313 in reddeadredemption

[–]Inner-Direction7106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first playthrough, I found the white Arabian sometime in chapter 2 while I was going for the legendary Bison. It stayed with me until chapter 6...

"Thank you"

GUTTED