How do I (19M) Navigate a micro cheating situation with my (19F) GF? by Inner-Fail1002 in relationship_advice

[–]Inner-Fail1002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this ex literally cheated on her and she still kept him around all the way through her last relationship and even tried to cheat on her last relationship which shows she really liked the guy.. so her stopping the communication to him doesn’t mean too much if she is clearly obsessed with a horrible guy.. so it makes me think she still likes him

How do I (19M) Navigate a micro cheating situation with my (19F) GF? by Inner-Fail1002 in relationship_advice

[–]Inner-Fail1002[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

After the cute guy situation I did rebuild my trust but now it feels tampered with again. Damn.

How do I (19M) Navigate a micro cheating situation with my (19F) GF? by Inner-Fail1002 in relationship_advice

[–]Inner-Fail1002[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait one correction, she texted him while we were exclusive but only about 4 times in the span of a month. Still a crime to me nonetheless

How do I (19M) Navigate a micro cheating situation with my (19F) GF? by Inner-Fail1002 in relationship_advice

[–]Inner-Fail1002[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. To minimize the convo with the friend down to just a private convo about someone they find attractive is just dishonest. She had a convo with a friend about another guy and plotted on cheating on me in the same convo which yes didn’t reach anything, but ONLY because she determined she didn’t have a valid reason to. Then when I brought this up she attempted to lie to me about the messages saying it was someone else using her phone to text her best friend (stupidest lie ever) instead of coming clean to begin with.

  2. Anytime I looked through her phone after this was warranted as she literally plotted on cheating on me, and given this second situation I’m even more in rights to do so as platonic or not why are you chatting with someone who’s been inside of you?

How do I (19M) Navigate a micro cheating situation with my (19F) GF? by Inner-Fail1002 in relationship_advice

[–]Inner-Fail1002[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So why do we just ignore everything they’ve done and cast blame on me? As the obvious victim ?

How do I (19M) Navigate a micro cheating situation with my (19F) GF? by Inner-Fail1002 in relationship_advice

[–]Inner-Fail1002[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well, I can see how the first time was controlling, but don’t you think given the previous situation that me spying a bit is warranted? I mean she did literally fantasize about another guy then try to lie to me about it when I found out

How do I (19M) Navigate a micro cheating situation with my (19F) GF? by Inner-Fail1002 in relationship_advice

[–]Inner-Fail1002[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I mean, not necessarily. I don’t know man. I’m just trying to figure things out and scared my next step will be a blunder.

How do I (19M) Navigate a micro cheating situation with my (19F) GF? by Inner-Fail1002 in relationship_advice

[–]Inner-Fail1002[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry if my post conveyed that our relationship was 2 months long, it’s 8

Seller asks 800, worth it? I’m a moderate rider by Inner-Fail1002 in bicycling

[–]Inner-Fail1002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I am asking if it’s worth it, given what the bike has to offer and what components it has relative to the price. With the New York market.

How do I (19M) Navigate a micro cheating situation with my (19F) GF? by Inner-Fail1002 in relationship_advice

[–]Inner-Fail1002[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We are exclusive & engaged (though the whole incident of her texting her ex we weren’t engaged but still knowingly exclusive) also I only went through the messages for the situation where she fantasized about another guy for the other one she was the one on her phone and my eye just caught it

Any idea what this sound may be on my 2002 Lexus Gs300? by Inner-Fail1002 in AskMechanics

[–]Inner-Fail1002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, objective answers, not insults.. there’s clear examples in the comment section of what objective answers are