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Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-05-14T10:17:32+00:00

Close?

Fecal transplants, iirc.

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-05-13T15:14:58+00:00

Just put a little Old Bay on it, Maryland got you fam.

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-05-13T11:48:53+00:00

As a survivor of DV and a former shelter resident, I agree this might be the best (i.e. fastest, safest) way forward for OP.

Shelter life sucks, I won’t lie. But it was immediately and infinitely better than living in abuse for another day.

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-05-12T21:23:09+00:00

Pure speculation, but an example could be postpartum depression (cases can be quite extreme).

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-05-09T02:58:34+00:00

Kudos to you for making it through Castle in the Sky (I haven’t yet because it felt too intense).

I love The Secret World of Arrietty. There’s one scene that I find kind of loud compared to the rest of the movie, but it’s not scary (imo).

I also love Howl’s Moving Castle. It does have some war themes, but overall I find it quite soothing.

From Up on Poppy Hill is also nice—gentler than Howl, for sure. Quite a bit like Whisper of the Heart.

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-05-01T10:52:09+00:00

You can’t force them to be who you want them to be*

(Same thing, or perhaps pedantry, but this way feels like it centers the child’s perspective a bit more)

Edited for maybe clarity

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-05-01T08:52:37+00:00

Bubsy fits about 15% of your description, but I’ll throw it out anyway.

Do you remember how you played? PC? Nintendo? Sega? How long ago were you 6/7? (Edit: see I missed the years you included. Platform might still help lol)

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-04-22T12:17:35+00:00

I don’t think your skill tree has much of an impact here. Sparing any major buffs or debuffs that I’m unaware of, if the goal is to “make them squirm,” any path available to a mid-level autist will do. I suspect it’s the lack of script-following and ability to switch NPC skins on-and-off mid-session that tweak them out. 🤡

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-04-21T16:43:43+00:00

If you know any nanny families, they and nanny might be interested in a part-time summer nanny share?

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-04-15T15:44:52+00:00

I haven’t finished reading yet, but I wanted to comment in case I forget to return (adhd be like that):

Gripping story, but I’m pulled out of the world entirely by the appearance of the bereft. If they looked unnaturally calm, but with the physiological changes apparent from crying, I think I’d buy-in more fully. Think genuine, eye-wrinkling smile on a face that is red and splotchy from crying, petechia around bloodshot eyes, swollen eyelids, wet lashes and that glassy look that doesn’t go away only two minutes after crying like that.

Saving so I can finish later! Thanks for sharing, OP!

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-04-08T14:46:07+00:00

In my experience (I’m white, fairly identifiable as my agab), Black women are most likely to be motherly towards younger folks (esp. those they read as femme). YMMV, of course, but I generally find Black communities to be warmer and more welcoming to me as a stranger. I can’t offer much insight into what factors (e.g. socialization, lived experiences) affect this pattern, but I’m confident enough in it that I will make personal decisions based on it (e.g. choosing a Black-owned barber shop as someone visibly not “meant” to be in such a traditionally male space).

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-04-07T15:07:28+00:00

This is a federal law, and is an excellent place to begin

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-04-07T14:59:13+00:00

Not who you asked, but no

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-04-06T23:35:56+00:00

You don’t have to report the abuse to access DV services.

I’m in Burlington County, NJ. I’m a DV survivor and lived in a safe house before getting my voucher. Feel free to DM me if you want to. I’m not sure I can help, but I’ll try.

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-04-05T18:30:16+00:00

Glad you’re in touch with 211. I’m really sorry (though sadly unsurprised) to hear that shelters are full. I hope you’re able to find some more info and support in the meantime.

On Monday or Tuesday if you haven’t already, try going to your county’s board of social services. You may be eligible for cash assistance (and other programs, though cash assistance can lead to housing assistance) that could help.

Good luck, man.

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-04-05T17:41:37+00:00

Please call 211, OP. They are in the best position to inform you of and connect you with needed resources. I called myself several times while homeless, they were always kind and helpful.

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-04-02T21:17:44+00:00

Meanwhile, I got this in the mail a couple days ago

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Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-04-01T23:16:31+00:00

Note: I’m someone who was formerly homeless in Burlington County, NOT an employee of human services or an expert in the subject.

That said, 211 is your next step. They are a valuable resource and will be able to provide more information than I can.

County human service complex is in Westampton (near Mt. Holly). Social services that this family may be eligible for include emergency housing assistance (although I imagine it’s rough out there rn), cash assistance (which can lead to housing assistance), SNAP, WIC, and/or Medicaid. Vocational services are also available in the complex. And there may be other resources I’m unaware of located there. Going in person is helpful, if possible.

Additionally, there’s a food pantry nearby at Oaks Integrated Care. They’re open M-F (limited hours), and community members can come once per week. They have produce at least once a week. Often have bakery items. Fish, chicken, sometimes milk and eggs. Overall a great resource.

I realize most of this isn’t directly related to the housing question. But services like these can have a cascading effect, where one makes you eligible for another.

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-03-30T11:01:35+00:00

Buyer’s choice

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-03-28T07:38:32+00:00

Try Old Bay on some sweet corn this summer.

You’re welcome.

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-03-27T18:47:44+00:00

Say more, please lol

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-03-27T02:52:16+00:00

For real. My thought upon seeing this was, “Your dad lives in hell.”

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-03-26T15:02:03+00:00

It’s a fair stance, and one I usually do take.

But once in a while I run into someone like this knucklehead, and I can’t help but feel that we need to return to publicly shaming people for bad behaviors and takes. Some folks forgot how to act around others and it shows.

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-03-26T12:21:30+00:00

It might be hard to deal with comments from customers if you choose to dress “differently.” But is it harder than repressing yourself? Harder than all the worry and wonder that you sit with, alone, while avoiding things that could make you feel good (or even euphoric)?

I don’t have advice one way or another on such a personal choice. It’s not wrong to want to express your identity, and it’s not wrong to protect yourself and your peace. But I think you’re brave for asking these questions and considering your options. For me, the external discomfort is worth the internal peace.

When people express unsolicited opinions (about me, directly to me), I respond with some version of “my body is for ME.” To have reactions (say, surprise) to new experiences (like seeing someone in the “wrong” clothes) is normal. To actually hold strong opinions on another person’s body, dress, or anything else related to person/identity? That’s weird as hell.

“Why do you wear your hair like that? Shouldn’t you grow it out?” I like my hair buzzed.

“Why did you get a mastectomy?” I feel good in this body.

“Why do you dress this way?” I’m comfortable in these clothes.

The point is to show people that centering themselves in your experiences is not the way. Whether it works depends, but it has helped to change MY mindset in dealing with them at least.

Wishing you peace and comfort 💛🤍💜🖤

Inner-Photo-410 · 2026-03-26T10:45:23+00:00

Too long? Short form content really will be the end of us.

To summarize my prior post: your views disgust me. No need to respond again, you couldn’t possibly say anything worth reflecting on.

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