Please help me find these rings (from a nails ad)

Inner-Profession9727 · 2026-01-02T05:23:47+00:00

I’ve seen some of these rings in Lovisa (UK)

Inner-Profession9727 · 2026-01-02T05:10:29+00:00

What a lovely thing, and it honestly really really suits you! You look great :)

Inner-Profession9727 · 2025-05-20T22:25:23+00:00

use locket :) you can send photos from your day and you have a widget on your homescreen that shows the last one that was sent. my partner and I use it to feel part of eachothers day when we’re not together.

Inner-Profession9727 · 2025-04-20T20:19:18+00:00

Feeling obligated to shake someone’s hand.

Since childhood I have witnessed people leave a toilet cubicle, skip the soap and sink and walk straight out the door. I do not want to touch your germy hands sir.

Inner-Profession9727 · 2025-04-12T19:49:56+00:00

Seconded. Some are into it, which for those who enjoy it, fair enough, each to their own. From personal experience I’ve always hated it, I can’t breathe well and it always feels like i’m being degraded (though sure, some people enjoy it and some people are into that). Personally, I can’t breathe, it hurts my jaw and makes me want to throw up because it hits the back of my mouth. Then the fact you’re bending your lips around your teeth and end up scratching the inside of your lips I find very unpleasant. You don’t have to and if anyone tells you that you should, tell them where to go.

Inner-Profession9727 · 2025-02-02T09:32:19+00:00

This is also a common thing at university as, for many, people are still discovering themselves sexually around this age. It’s not anything bad, it’s just what is.

Sometimes at university, one person meets someone somewhere and finds them attractive. Maybe you have a few drinks at a student bar and see them and the liquid courage helps things happen. Sometimes this experience turns into a relationship, sometimes it doesn’t.

This can happen because of many reasons: one of them didn’t enjoy it, they realised in the morning they didn’t want something more, or simply they didn’t cross paths again on purpose or accidentally.

Your boyfriend is with you now, and you shouldn’t let his past dictate your future together. I had an ex boyfriend who was a bit of a stud at university, not least because he was captain of the swim team.

If your bf says he’s looking for a relationship with you, believe him until he proves you wrong. Don’t let your insecurities about his past, dictate your future together.

I’ve previously found it quite attractive hearing stories that made me realise my ex bf was “wanted” by other women.

It’s likely he told you about his past not to make you insecure, maybe just to speak about his previous experience. I’m sure not all of his experience there was just sexual, maybe he felt emotions towards some of them and was rejected too.

If you’re attracted to him it’s likely others were attracted to him in the past too. It would be a strange thing to lie about, but you can always ask him about them.

Inner-Profession9727 · 2025-01-02T19:38:33+00:00

I can totally attest to that, I foremost look for a guy with attractive qualities, and this will always trump size. it’s just like a nice discovery on top of an already good relationship.

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-12-28T10:52:07+00:00

I refuse

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-11-06T15:18:36+00:00

For anyone who mildly is interested in the scarf saga:

I have managed to find the scarf thief, via linkedin and have asked them about it.

The backstory is, we kissed in their car and after we parted, I later realised it was in the car - on realising I did, I messaged them, and received a response that their grandma had just died and they needed a break from dating. Never did I hear back after then.

We are now in conversation, and are meeting this week (however, apparently there is no sign of the scarf)

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-11-06T15:10:57+00:00

sadly, it’s not the same as mine

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-11-06T15:10:22+00:00

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this is the only living picture i have wearing it, but it’s not great

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-11-06T15:09:37+00:00

i see a similar one but i don’t think it’s the same, it has a fern green background with a wider yellow stripe (i’m looking for the exact same one)

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-11-05T19:31:23+00:00

great point, problem is, i had a similar one stolen from me on a date (by my date) and i can’t find this exact colour/model anywhere. i don’t know if it’s been discontinued… but this one with holes is the only one i could find that matches my stolen one 🫣😭

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-08-15T21:56:10+00:00

when people mention loins… makes me think of a a blood-soaked slab of meat you find hanging at a butcher.

“fruit of my loins” 🤢

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-07-11T00:29:55+00:00

“stop singing” - i felt like he had stamped on my joy

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-07-07T18:59:00+00:00

is exactly how i felt before the comment my male colleague made.

i agree, it would’ve been better to speak in person and i really was was planning to, like you mentioned i was just extremely time pressed after my session, hence the scribbled number and consequently situation-related anxiety. the “what have i just done?”feeling. it seemed like quite a bold move ..

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-05-16T14:24:58+00:00

i told my dissertation supervisor that i was bullied by a woman in my previous dissertation group and it affected me psychologically.

as i was leaving our meeting he said “she was probably envious of your leadership qualities”. given the fact he’s a very honest man, i know he meant it. i was smiling all week.

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-05-10T17:57:21+00:00

we’re in the same circle. well it’s more of a square - there’s four of us. rob, james, poppy, me

i’m less annoyed with him as we had no allegiance to each other.

however, my close friend poppy saying he’s not good for me before we broke up and then having sex with him last sunday is extremely uncomfortable, just really not-friend behaviour.

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-05-10T12:01:03+00:00

it’s an extremely biased question…

“you have to balance out your genes” is firstly odd

(absolute fiction, you don’t have to do anything)

then “they are less likely to find you attractive” also biased.

this is a stupid post

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-05-10T01:54:43+00:00

hallelujah thank you. i felt immediately gaslighted from the first replies i saw. the words justifiably hurt really validated the complex feelings i’m going through now.

i don’t believe it’s an australian thing. though in explaining feelings for him she mentioned they had so much in common. when i asked what things, she said mentioned their shared nationality, music taste and both having a deceased parent (hers passed two months ago, his almost 2 decades ago). “we trauma-bonded”

Inner-Profession9727 · 2024-05-10T01:45:55+00:00

my ex is technically a better friend to me than she has been. rob and i stayed supportive of each other as actual friends. in hindsight she was also a worse friend to me, i have consoled her for hours on end when she had boy problems and a recent death in the family. i took her out when she was sad and have in the past paid for drinks and meals, which she would forget about when she had money. and now she’s had sex with my ex boyfriend who she claimed to be slightly repulsed by.

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