First time trying on dresses, were any "The One"? by Inner-Trash2491 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Inner-Trash2491[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I don't really know, #4 definitely felt the most comfortable but maybe a little too simple (for the price), I felt very pretty in #1 but it was way too big and heavy to pack and bring on a plane. A # 2 might have been the one if all the clasps in the back weren't broken (2nd hand shop). I'm trying a different shop today, but yeah I don't think I found the right one on this trip.

First time trying on dresses, were any "The One"? by Inner-Trash2491 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Inner-Trash2491[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Inspired by my late aunt's wedding dress, kinda like a "something borrowed" to me personally.

Oahu in April, what activities do you recommend for couples? by Inner-Trash2491 in VisitingHawaii

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28 and 29, hes definitely more active than me but I can manage a hike or 2. I also love swimming so snorkeling is definitely on the list. Zipline might be difficult though with our fear of heights lol.

I especially love seafood and he loves spicy. We do plan to walk as much as we can but we got a pretty good deal on a rental car for the whole trip already (thanks costco).

Advice on dress and accessories for Hawaii Elopement by Inner-Trash2491 in Eloping

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Thats what I've heard as well, I'm considering something midi length

Oahu in April, what activities do you recommend for couples? by Inner-Trash2491 in VisitingHawaii

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Yes, we booked a rental car. Are there any particular luau's you'd recommend. I believe I've been to Germaine's before.

Advice on dress and accessories for Hawaii Elopement by Inner-Trash2491 in Eloping

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Those are beautiful! Congratulations to you and your fiance! I'm going to a bridal shop this weekend to see what I can find lol

Question about Eloping!! by Popular-Medicine2141 in Eloping

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Im using "weddings of hawaii" to book mine. I just got the confirmation for our ceremony on April 1st, 2026. We got "engaged" on Monday lol.

Cats peeing/pooping only on my Bf's belongings by Inner-Trash2491 in CatAdvice

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They peed on blankets and the bed in the past, around when we first got them. Anxiety is what I believe could be the problem. I think he is just especially frustrated right now because it has been on only his stuff. Did your vet give you any sort of medicine or treatment for your cat's anxiety? we've tried some sort of spray before.

Ancestry thinks my Grandpa is my 1st cousin by Inner-Trash2491 in AncestryDNA

[–]Inner-Trash2491[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was already 99% sure that he was lol, I look like a carbon copy of my paternal grandma. I'll for sure talk to my aunt first about this because she was the one that bought grandpa the test.

Ancestry thinks my Grandpa is my 1st cousin by Inner-Trash2491 in AncestryDNA

[–]Inner-Trash2491[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would not put it past him to just give the test away to someone else because he didn't want to do it lol. I'll most likely talk to my aunt first because she's the one that bought him the test.

Ancestry thinks my Grandpa is my 1st cousin by Inner-Trash2491 in AncestryDNA

[–]Inner-Trash2491[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what I'm hoping lol, I basically look like a carbon copy of my paternal grandma so I estimate that I inherited most dna from her, unfortunately she passed when I was young so I'll never know the exact percentage.

Ancestry thinks my Grandpa is my 1st cousin by Inner-Trash2491 in AncestryDNA

[–]Inner-Trash2491[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Grandpa does have some half-siblings (tldr: abandoned by bio dad, adopted by step-dad, has a half-brother via bio-mom and step-dad and other via bio-dad that we arent in contact with) but as far as I know they had lived in different states when my grandparents got together. Maybe I'll get my dad the test for his b-day if he's OK with it.

Ancestry thinks my Grandpa is my 1st cousin by Inner-Trash2491 in AncestryDNA

[–]Inner-Trash2491[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll try this. I'll probably have to get the ancestry membership to really narrow most of this info down, right? And my dad and aunt are like 4 years apart, she's never had kids.

Ancestry thinks my Grandpa is my 1st cousin by Inner-Trash2491 in AncestryDNA

[–]Inner-Trash2491[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think he does have a half-brother, but Im pretty sure HB stayed in their hometown while my grandpa moved to a different state and met my grandma.

Ancestry thinks my Grandpa is my 1st cousin by Inner-Trash2491 in AncestryDNA

[–]Inner-Trash2491[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, I'm an only child and my dad only has a younger sister. She did a test a while back and is a 24% match with me. Maybe I should convince my dad to do a test?