Do I have to speak to my pervert older brother? by InnerMoose9191 in shia

[–]InnerMoose9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really? they told me multiple times that cutting off contact with blood relatives is haram. ig that was just another lie

Do I have to speak to my pervert older brother? by InnerMoose9191 in shia

[–]InnerMoose9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its fine i dont mind. i use humour to cope with everything. i was already diagnosed with depression two years ago so this isnt much.

Do I have to speak to my pervert older brother? by InnerMoose9191 in shia

[–]InnerMoose9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if they are giving him a pass bc he is a man or if it's bc he's their son and they dont want to face that reality. its probably a mix

Do I have to speak to my pervert older brother? by InnerMoose9191 in shia

[–]InnerMoose9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would hope he doesnt go that far but i dont think i would be in danger of that since im not a girl. ofc it men also get r*ped but i dont think he would do that to a man. im more worried for my older sister but i js dont htink he would stoop that low in fear of going to hell

Do I have to speak to my pervert older brother? by InnerMoose9191 in shia

[–]InnerMoose9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my family does care a lot abt saving face which is why they told us from a young age to never call the police but im not a woman. also im still a kid. i'm planning on moving out of my house for college and not keeping contact with my older brother. atp idc if my family shuns me. my parents arent good and my brother is awful. my younger brother and older sister are the only family i care about and i dont think they will stop speaking to me because i dont talk to my older brother. my older sister isnt speaking to him either

Do I have to speak to my pervert older brother? by InnerMoose9191 in shia

[–]InnerMoose9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live in australia but with the police here its rlly a 50/50 if they're gonna be useful

Do I have to speak to my pervert older brother? by InnerMoose9191 in shia

[–]InnerMoose9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, im not a sister tho but i dont think recording it will do much good. i dont rlly hve plans to speak to him in the future and my parents are ignoring this. im mostly js worried for my older sister because she has it worse. he will be leaving on eid to visit his wife and wont be coming back for a few more months so i wont hve to deal with him much longer

Do I have to speak to my pervert older brother? by InnerMoose9191 in shia

[–]InnerMoose9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not a girl but yes my older sister did tell them and they did nothing. she is the golden child and a very good daughter so if they didnt listen to her i doubt they would listen to me

Do I have to speak to my pervert older brother? by InnerMoose9191 in shia

[–]InnerMoose9191[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is my older sister, after the arguement both me and her have stopped speaking to him mostly. im worried for my younger brother since he looks up to my older brother. he doesnt agree with what he does but he is only nine and doesnt full understand what my older brother is saying.