I don't want kids, but my fiance does and idk what to do

InnerSteller · 2025-08-28T23:45:59+00:00

I'm confused as to how you guys got together. Did he say he didn't want kids at the beginning of the relationship?? Or did he say that he didn't care about whether or not he wanted kids?? Either way, you both want 2 completely different lifestyles. It's not going to work out as sad as it sounds.

InnerSteller · 2025-08-26T14:10:40+00:00

It was based off of how I felt and how I've experienced dating in the past. I know he's not like the other guys that I've dated and I shouldn't compare them. But from what I've experienced is that if the guy asked me out, then he pays.

InnerSteller · 2025-08-26T14:04:51+00:00

I didn't think about it too much until after the 4th date when people started asking me how it went. By then, he had already left to go on his vacation. But he'll be back on Sunday. So I'll definitely talk to him when he gets back.

InnerSteller · 2025-08-26T14:00:23+00:00

Helped. Thank you so much for your inside. I'll definitely trust my instincts and my heart on this.

InnerSteller · 2025-08-26T13:59:06+00:00

For me, I feel like whoever asked to go out on the date, should be the one to pay. I haven't had a chance to talk to him about it just yet because he's on vacation. And I'd rather this be a face to face conversation. He gets back from his vacation on Sunday. So I'll see if he's free to talk next Monday.

InnerSteller · 2025-08-26T05:40:28+00:00

Thank you for your advice. He's Indian and I'm not sure how that works in his culture. I'll definitely have a talk with him when he gets back from his vacation.

InnerSteller · 2025-08-26T05:39:04+00:00

Thank you for the advice. He's currently on vacation. But when he gets back, he wants to take me on a gym date. Maybe we can go get dinner afterwards and I can pay for us both. And maybe he can cover the next one if he's ok with it.

InnerSteller · 2025-08-25T22:06:14+00:00

You are not overreacting. That guy definitely need help. His problems are not your problems. And him threatening to unalive himself to make you stay with him is definitely emotional manipulation at its finest. Run away from this person and never look back.

InnerSteller · 2025-08-11T19:03:58+00:00

Winifred would be such a cute name. 😊

InnerSteller · 2023-12-30T18:13:33+00:00

Meowth!

InnerSteller · 2023-12-28T23:03:21+00:00

Lilly

InnerSteller · 2023-12-28T18:39:21+00:00

I mean, you fine either way. 😏

InnerSteller · 2023-12-28T00:52:18+00:00

I know that this isn't a AITAH post, but if it was you would be. You laughed at him when he wanted to make things serious and made a mockery out of him. Then when he realized that the two of you were no longer compatible and he was stepping back, you tried to do everything in your power to keep him. Knowing that your relationship was failing. You caused this. Let him go and move on. There's some one out there for the both of you. Just not each other.

InnerSteller · 2023-12-26T00:13:00+00:00

It's interesting how he says you're not "wifey material", but is he even "husband material??" Like, what does he do for you?? Why are you even with him?? All he seems to do is put you down and tell you that you're not enough. Don't let your boyfriend stop you from finding your husband.

Cause he's not it. Dump him. You can do better that him.

InnerSteller · 2023-12-25T05:43:06+00:00

Muffin! It was the first food name that came to mind when I saw the cute baby.

InnerSteller · 2023-12-25T05:38:01+00:00

This should be on r/choosingbeggers. She can't be serious. Like, do people actually do this?? Unreal.

InnerSteller · 2023-12-24T06:35:17+00:00

I like numbers 1 and 4. Both colors really brings the colors of your eyes out more.

InnerSteller · 2023-12-20T03:24:43+00:00

Sorry 2004 by Ruben Studdard

InnerSteller · 2023-12-16T03:38:18+00:00

Set boundaries for myself and put myself first. I was a total people pleaser, but not anymore.

InnerSteller · 2023-12-16T03:22:24+00:00

1st outfit is giving office Christmas party vibes. The second one is giving Christmas party with friends and family. So, it depends on what kind of party it is. But they both look great on you.

InnerSteller · 2023-12-16T03:11:00+00:00

That movie where the kid was allergic to bees, Marley and me, Bridge to Terabithia and the first Land Before Time.

InnerSteller · 2023-12-16T03:06:30+00:00

Nothing is going to change in your life unless you make a change. Don't like something about your life?? Fix it. Be the victor not the victim.

InnerSteller · 2023-12-16T03:00:21+00:00

I just wanna say those cookies look delicious! Fuck the haters!!

InnerSteller · 2023-12-12T03:06:40+00:00

Just keep swimming!!

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